Okay guys, i need some advice here. Im 21 and i met this girl a year ago, she was a friend of a friend and she started hanging out with my group of friends. She started to initiate with me all the time, texting me everyday before she went to work and saying that i have to be up if she is and texting me to say goodnight.

Since then we have just hung out, gone for food etc. I was never into her but at one point she invited me over to watch a movie round hers and i wasn't into her but i think she wanted me to sleep with her. But at this point i was into someone else.

Well anyways i stupidly (when drunk) text her saying i want to be more than a friend with her. As you can expect, this didn't go well. It demonstrated a lack of confidence on my part and bad timing.

So anyways i decided to get my shit together and i joined a gym in august and i now have a muscular body, which she has commented on a few times. I also started to see another girl who lives out of town. When my girl friend found out about her she was supportive and said "aww when are you seeing her next?" but when she started hearing stories about the two of us from my friends she only mentioned her in a way that was having a jab at me.

Recently this girl text me at 11 and asked me some advice on something. I gave her the advice and said "hope that helps, ive got to go to bed now, im staying out of town so got to be up early to get to work tomorrow"

Anyways 10 minutes later i get a reply saying "if your with **** i will not be impressed with you!!" This seemed like jealousy to me. The next day me and my friends were out and i didnt know she was coming. She walked upto us, said hello really nicely to my friends and said to me in a really angry way "so were you with **** last night then?, did you f**k her?" and before i could answer she sad "your such a dick" That night i said why would i be a dick if i did see her? She said "why sleep with someone your not into?"

Now is she saying this because i never slept with her and she's jealous? But when i told her recently that i want more, she responded with the "i wish i could feel that way for you" shit.

So i told her i cant be her guy friend anymore and that it will always be in the back of my mind and she will always be having a go at me for seeing other girls. Oh and she went on a date with a guy last night. So maybe her attention has shifted?

She text me saying "so your saying we cant be friends at all? your ommiting me?"

How should i reply to this?

Thanks