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PostPosted: Wed Apr 13, 2011 8:19 am 
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Is it better when starting picking up women with women you feel intimidated by their beauty or just women you think are passable and not intimidated?

Because this happened to me today.. I talked to girls who are sexy and kino(no kisses yet). Today i've talked a little bit to a girl who is really cute. She has a decent body but i couldnt stop shaking. This girl ive wanting to talk to her since 2 months ago.

I am thinking it might be i took to long to talk to her thats why when it came to it i got really nervous..
Or it must be i need to get used to be around really more cute girls..

What do you guys think?

Comments, tips and hints appreciated including jokes :D

P.S. i find more attractive cute than sexy. might be me cause am starting...


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 13, 2011 8:54 am 
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Don't look at it through the perspective of 'am I scared of this girl or not' in order to approach. Look at the girl - do you think she's cute/attractive to you? If you look at her and go 'my god, this is the kind of girl I would love to have in my life' - then approach. It doesn't matter if you're 'scared' or not (I would refer it to as 'nervousness' rather than 'fear'. If you're actually AFRAID of women - something's not right and you need to work on that before approaching).

And if you feel a little nervous around the cute girls you appraoch and if they give you butterflies - that's only a good thing. Means you're approaching the right kind of girls for you. Enhance the feeling and see it as excitement rather than something negative.

Finally, keep opening the kind of women you've been approaching so far as well - it's all practice.


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 15, 2011 8:39 pm 
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Thanks for the tips!
The thing is in my college theres only few women who I feel attracted to. I mean I dont want to look like a coward by not approaching women. But really theres not a lot that make me want to pursue them(Hopefully is not my mind playing fool tricks on me that maybe am not there league). Its not that they have a body, because theres a lot of sexy bodies. I am more of a face guy and cute.

anyways thanks for the feedback Little panda!


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