Girls are like that. They don't give a shit how many times they text you, when they're interested, they're interested. They're not like us where when we're interested we keep it on the "Down low", not get too attached. Here's the thing, her rejection doesn't mean shit. She's just a bit harder to seduce because of her ex boyfriend from what it sounds. If you want to get anywhere else with her, it's going to have to be face to face and not texting.

Thank you for this post. glad to see someone gets it.

Thanks for the advice guys.

Wow, looks like you were spot on or very close.

Spoke to her again at the weekend. She said she panicked, it all got on top of her and she wasn't ready for anything like that. She then remarked that she would still like to chat to me and get on but just as friends for the time being.

I didn't really agree to that, just kind of said we'll take it from there, see how it goes. Then I didn't message her again.

Well this morning, she messages me, quizzing me about my cool status, making small talk etc. I had a little convo with her, bit flirty etc then after she responded to one of my messages with "lol" I left it at that.

So get to lunchtime, she sets her status to "Very happy to have her fluff" with a smiley. Then she puts her display pic of a random guy laying down. Then she puts her status to "Fluffy" with a smiley and proceeds to change her display pic to two different pics of this guy.

WTF. I feel very low now. I was moving on, felt very secure about it and finally had peace of mind, now she does this.

I am sorry to hear that, man. Look at it this way...you got to spend some time with HB9, Kissed her, and even got a sexy pic of her...now, just post the sexy pic of her as your FB profile pic...hahah jk...

In all seriousness, take the good out of it....I made out with this girl two times a few weeks ago Did everything, but sex, and instead of being like, "damn, didn't sex her, I was like, "shit, I got two fun nights out of this chic and one of the better blow jobs I have ever received before she went back to her boy...lol

Take the good with the bad. You shouldn't lose confidence in the ending, look at what you accomplished and work from there!

Peace, and thanks for keeping us in the loop!

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Thank you for your constructive advice and for being so kind. You guys have been really great, thank you.

You are right, I did the hard work, I captured a HB9 in a busy club, got two dates out of her, KC and 2nd base and at the end of the day, if she wants to be like that, she's not worth the trouble. I know who I am and I don't deserve to be treated like that.

Time to take the positives from this and improve my game.

Exactly.....

Hey, if you ever make it to Denver someday, game on!!

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