Freeze HER out. Whenever possible, mirror the way that people are treating you, except in cases where they are angry-- in those cases, freeze them out.
She can only win if you give her the emotional currency. The playing field is in your head-- the harder you hold on, the more wasted effort there is, therefore the stakes get higher. Cut your losses and move on.
The thing to do is to freeze her out, possibly for a few months. That's what anyone who knows anything about this sort of thing will tell you. In your case I would cut off all contact SUDDENLY.

Question is whether you actually want a person like this back. If it's an international relationship you have to wonder whether it's worth the time at all.

^ What he said. If you value your sanity, stop speaking to her completely. See if she contacts you and then play it cool from there. Regardless, start moving on with your life.

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1. You're in the wrong forum.
2. You had a great fling. Leave it at that.
3. If she wanted to be with you, she would have stayed with you and worked things through.
4. Even when she was with you, she wasn't 'with you'. By the way, you're in a pick up forum. How many times do you think I've told girls, "I love you?"
5. There are a few things you could try but I don't think you could pull it off. Judging by your writing, she'll be able to tell that you're begging for her. (No matter what you do.)
6. Completely 'cutting' people out of their lives for no apparent reason is NOT A KIND ACT. You are dealing with a sub par human being. Ask yourself why you're so much into this sadistic person.
7. This is a person who 'flips' her emotions. The only thing that you will accomplish by playing your act will be to disgust her further and illicit pity for you.

Live your life.

you guys are right. I had oneitus. I'm not going to try and get on her ship. It still hurts, it's hard to accept that she told me she loved me, made me all these promises about being together and then just froze me out for no reason. It makes me want to chase her, but that's the psychology of the game working. I guess she's playing the game, maybe without even realising it. The fact is though I need to think with my head because my emotions are blinded. I can't let her or anyone else hurt me anymore. I need to respect myself. With this forum I could learn ways to protect myself from being hurt and be the one in control in the future. She doesn't deserve me.

I think you made the right decision and I hope to still see you on the forum