Hi im 16 and im from london, uk

i go to a boarding school and there are a lot of hot girls there and i was wanting to learn some pick up so i can go talk to them with confidence and hopefully get somewhere with them

theres this one girl i really like she's 17 and a perfect 10 and i don't know her , anyway when school starts again in 2 weeks im choosing to do rowing because she does that as her sport (shes a cox) so i could see her a lot at the river where we train.

now there is some problems

problem 1) i have been dropped a year at school so in the school years im 2 years below and she probably thinks im 15 if you get me and from what i know at my age its all about rep at school and im worried that she might reject me because she thinks i could lower her rep.

problem 2) i don't know where to start in order to learn pick up now what i think and i might be wrong that pick up is mainly used for when your in a club or bar at night so i would like a book that is good for day game and for using at school.

i was thinking of reading neil strauss the game then reading the mystery method,
but im not sure so please help me find a book or books that could help me.

and if you have any success stories from any good books tell me please.

thanks

and thanks

IANAPUA

The Game followed by Mystery Method sounds like a great plan to me.

That's exactly what I'm doing, except I'm 25.

I wish I had discovered this stuff in high school. You're going to be at a huge advantage because at your age everyone is still learning this courtship stuff right along with you, so you're going to get some leeway with mistakes.

Don't focus on one ten. Maybe strut right up to some other randomly selected 8-10s that you care less about and just start talking to them. The ten you have in mind will probably notice this, and be like "oooh whose that?"

I have no idea what a cox is.

Best of luck, man!

Mystery Method is a great place to start pal.

High school/College/University game is a lot harder than Club/Bar game.

I started learning pick up when i was 16 and then by the time i finished college i had a great social group that consisted mainly of HB's.

My plan was to befriend all the HBs i could because in school it is all about rep and the more people that are talking about you...the more people will want to get to know you.
Just try and make as many new friends as possible!
The more friends you have the more parties you go to...
The more parties you go to the more people you will meet...
The more people you meet the more parties you get invited to...

All of a sudden your this guy that EVERYONE wants at their party. You are THE man in your social group and trust me it will draw girls to you like a magnet!

That is the upside of college game!!

The downside....PEOPLE COMMUNICATE!
You could get rejected at a party by some HB (IT happens to everyone) and it will get around that she shot you down.
One thing i would defiantly advise you to build is your INNER GAME! Try to teach yourself not to feel embarrassment and to not care what people think about you.
If someone tries to make a joke out of you like
"haha you got rejected by Kelly on friday i heard u was well trying it on with her blah blah" (It tends to be people that don't like you/are jealous of you that say this shit)
Laugh it of!..
"Kelly?..wait she thought i was trying to hit on her? ohh no poor girl i was just being nice! She's not my type dude everyone knows that!...So what did you get up to this weekend?"

This response is one ive used frequently and it works well! As you are befriending the guy trying to take the piss out of you and you can tool him.

Hope it helps!

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hows the stuff in the mystery method ? is it overly complicated or is it easy to read stuff that anyone can understand ?

To me, it's short and succinct, but will definitely take some wrapping your head around.

You're going to want to read it slowly and not blaze through it.

Here's a relevant link:

http://www.seductionbase.com/mysterymethod.htm


definitely check out the game first though. it's like the initiation reading.

That link Pipedreamz sent is the simplest way that i have seen the Mystery Method broken down. All you need to do now is learn the concepts of it....

A1 Open
A2 F-M Interest
A3 M-F Interest

Learn some DHV stories and work on building your social groups and social circles and tell us how it goes!

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Hiho, interesting that your starting this early, I'm 19 and I thought I was discovering this early ^^

Anyways, I've been tipped by other guys to read the following theorys/books to begin with:

John Alexander - "How to Become An Alpha Male".
The art of seduction.
60 Years of Challenge.
David Deangelo's "Double Your Dating".
Vin Dicarlo's Pandora's Box.

Take a look, So far I've only read the game, but will be moving on to these...

Good luck with that 10

Yours Truly Beyond Imagination.

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You got to start somewhere...

thanks beyond imagination

just ordered the game and the mystery method of amazon so im expecting to get them on friday.

im gonna read them and then when i go back to school in 2 weeks hopefully i will have some good knowledge of what to do and get some success from the girls.
i will post my results in a month or so when i have had time to test mysteries method out.

has anyone seen the tv series the pick up artist ? what do you think of it ? i really like it.

and pipedreamz a cox is the person facing the rowers telling them where to go and steers the boat.

Just relax and say hi to strangers and ask easy questions that come to you to start with if your not confident talking to strangers. Don't try too hard to be someone your not.
Ask normal stuff like genuine queries you have relevant to the situation before you start thinking about using techniques with hot women. It will just frazzle your mind to start with!

Np man I'm learning as well Have been practicing all week by speaking to a whole lot of girls with a big smile on my lips Some girls even started a conversation with me, probably cause I looked so confident and happy (Y)

Hope u get some luck with girls this weekend

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You got to start somewhere...

Dont get too technical to start with just ask them out or stuff that pops in your mind- but you gotta ask to get!