The like-minded girl

Okay first off people, this isn't going to be a Field report in the manner that I would really like to fuck this girl, because i'm genuinly interested in this girl on another way... I'm feeling really connected to her.

Okay so, what's up guys, been a while since I last posted another FR. Happened a lot lately but that isn't the thing that matters to me, right now there's this girl.. Yeah I know "one-itis" me all you want.. I don't really care. I just wanted to give you the heads up.

So- I've been talking to this girl a couple of days now - chatting and stuff. Even though I really haven't seen the girl yet - we are quite like-minded people. We have the same likes & dislikes and even can finish eachothers sentences (lol!) Anyways... I'm not really into just fucking this girl - Really into her.

Last day we had a conversation through the medium on which we conversate and it went something like this:
At which she responded with the following message.
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Fun night at the pub

Okay so I went to my regular pub where I usually hang, once arrived I saw my buddy Chivo - also from the forum here, working behind the bar. He said to me "Hey what is this, tonight, college night? I asked what he meant & he pointed to the the college grads at the other side of the bar. I knew them, friends of mine, normally they never there... so I went in to say "Hi."

Most of them were quite drunk so it was like really funny to hear them talk, one of them was like so in the need for a fuck that he couldn't stop talking about it. We joked around drank some more beers and just enjoyed the evening. At a given time Chivo quitted working and came hanging with us.

A bit later, I saw him sitting with some girls at a table. Both milfs - had children and stuff. I went in to wing.. we had some talks, a lot of laughs enjoyed some beers en just had a good time.

At a given time, the girls wanted our numbers to meet up with us this weekend for "Palmemarkt" which is a local festivity. It's a lot of fun! Anyways, we gave them our numbers and mails.. the hottest one said to me "I'll definitly give you a call" and blinked. She was divorced but damn.. nice body & sexy attitude. Okay - I said. "Sure, but don't expect me to go wild on our first date" blinked back.

A few moments later, they were playing the song:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vG1bLm93TDA[/youtube]

So she asked me to dance.. her head laid on my shoulders, she was touching everywhere. Strange this is that she was married and had 4 kids, while the oldest being 4 years younger then me..

Oh what a night!

Tonight some more

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Lay Report: Roesse voenk

So sup guys - I went out yesterday (again) and went to a "cantus." In one of my previous FR's you can read what it is. Anyways - I went there, in the beginning it was really bad so I really drank a lot of beer to make it good for myself. Lol, the irony of selfamusement.

Anyways - after the cantus I went into the pub .. open a variety of sets. One of them was opened by a friend of mine, so I went there and winged a bit, talked a bit. After that I went to another set - which consisted out of a couple & a girl.

I pulled out my cellphone and typed in their names. I told them we were gonna do a game. Truth or dare. They immediatly smiled and were in. So there were a few fun tasks between the list for example I had to rub above the breasts of the one girl from the one side to the other for 2 minutes. Didn't took me long to do that.. instantly. She glazed at me & stared.. then she smiled! Hell, I had this girl in my pocket. Too bad she wasn't really my type. I gave her a kiss and went out.

Then I had some talks with a girl that I know from parties. Long talk actually, she kept standing next to me while she knew everyone. Took that a bit of an signal that she was interested. Found out she lived together with a dude and that they were kinda serious dating - still.. the other dude has/or still does fuck other girls? Made me wonder...

Then opened an other girl.. being really direct. I told her to pick her cellphone out of her pockets, give it to me. I type in my digits & say "I'm expecting a text from you tomorrow" anyways - I haven't received one yet - but to be honest, I really don't care.

Then I went home with another girl, a social circle friend. I was kinda tired and had to get up early so let her do the work. Wasn't good sex for me tho, but she enjoyed it - that's what made it somewhat bareable lol. Didn't even get a BJ - or maybe just a small one. Strangely enough, I didn't like the sex, but just liked the company of again some sleeping next to me.

So - each month atleast one girl.. i'm on the good road!

≠ LD Out!

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I LOL'ed!

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Belgium or Holland?

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Ah cool, so am I

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The Festival Day - Opening of the hunting season!

So whaddup guys - I've been invited to go to some festival with some mates of mine, of them had to spin on the mainstage over there (+14k people) so it was awesome. Anyways, just wanted to show you a bit how I handled a few situations.

Okay - So getting there was quite a lot of fun. We were late from the beginning and I was like completely alone. Because the fact the went in through the artist entrance and me through the regular one. It didn't took long before I found him tho. Anyways, so we went to his stage and we kinda went loose on his set. Hardstyle on a stage in front of a few thousands of people... amazing, the feeling! Anyways, we were with 3 guys and one girl.. the girl was kinda cute, had a boyfriend.. but I knew she liked me. I could notice the way she looked at me that she was interested. So I did some light kino and some hugging.. while punching a bit. Had a few nice talks during that day but didn't really get far, mainly because her ugly ass boyfriend was there too.

Anyways - so I went on to another stage where another friend of mine had to perform. He's also an MC - vocalist so he was there all day. I said Hi to him and some more friends of mine until a photographer came to me and said the following.

Him: Some fans of you want to take a picture with you, is that okay?
Me: Sure man, no problem. Go get them!

He came back with 2 girls, one of them being okay cute.. and they took a picture. They were like so happy, didn't really close because of their age.. but hell, was a good feeling. Brought in me my mood really fast!

Came across some old friends, 3 girls that I coached in the beginning when I was an entertainer.. so they started talking to me. We went to the beach and catched up a bit. All of the sudden the girls needed to get drink tickets.. one of them (the cutest, with who I had a few sexual convo's earlier) wanted to stick with me.. so she stayed.
Needless to say, I took my shot.. a few minutes later we were kissing. Allright! Happy man.

For the rest of the day I just had a lot of fun, I was in my mood opened up a lot of sets. One of which being a girl which was kinda lingering to me for quite some time. I heard from a friend of mine that she had just broken up with her boyfriend and looking for some 'company.' Since I just was having fun and not really interested in hooking up I just talked to her. After 5 minutes I had her number and we texted back & forth during the next day. She remembered me and missed me already.. damn strange, how a strong conversation of only a few minutes can really stick with a girl.. I must have made quite an impression.

Anyways - it was late.. like half an hour before I had to leave direction home.. So we went into a lambada:


First time we went in there there were like 2 french girls - since my french is rather bad.. I just decided to try it out. They found it hilarious.. got the hottest one talking me quite soon in english and we just had a lot of fun. During the ride on the "Lambada" she was smiling a lot at me and I was just having fun. Anyways - the ride ended an my friend wanted to go again. The hot girl was looking at me CONSTANTLY after that and smiling at me.. so I waved her to come again.. she didn't know - she gestured back.

So I went in, took her by the arm and said "Come on, let's go!" .. so we went in it again. Didn't took long after that ride until she kissed me. Got her number and texting in english.. thank god she can speak english!

After that.. my friend wanted to go in again, I was like "But dude, I'm not going to spend so much money on a stupid ride", he would pay he said. "OKAYYY!" Anyways, we went in the ride and there was this nice looking girl sitting next to me on my right side and on her right side the boyfriend. Funny story..

You know that when you sit in a rollercoaster.. you got this bar that you have to lower for safety? Normally it's for you alone. Well in this ride it was for 2 people. I was still leaning forward to talk to my friend and she just lowered it..
"BAM" my head hurts like shit. She was like "Sorry, sorry sorry".. kept apologising.
I was like "No problem, just don't do it again " And she kept apologising.

Anyways, inside the ride.. my hands were up in the air.. hers too and all of the blue, she took my hand, squased in it for the entire ride and kept smiling at me.. damn, stupid boyfriend.. She kissed me on the cheeck goodbye & my day was done.

Oohh.. what a night!

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Strange, this first girl actually blocks my rational thinking.. It's really odd.

My Birthday Party
So I went out yesterday with the planning to atleast kiss a few girls and more importantly to enjoy a good evening. I got a text from a girl that she wanted to meet me so I left a bit early to the city. When I got there, she was "classy" late and brought some dude with her because she was a bit spooked. The dude was kinda testing me as I was a dumbass - playfully went along and he bailed out of there, me and the girl got talking.

So we walked a bit till with found this little venue near a square where we sat down and had a drink. The irony in this fact is that she told me she was pretty open but when she actually was with me I was the one doing the talking. She told me she felt "strange" and have never done this before.

Needless to say I didn't pay too much attention to it. However it raised some questions with me.

-It was strange, was it strange because it was with me? Do I need to adjust my frame?
- She never done this before, so I'm the first. What's my position with this girl?

Anyways - I don't think the frame needs to be adjusted because I made her laugh a lot even though she sometimes gave me a couple of strange looks.. problebly because I was goofing around a lot aswel. Anyways - when she had to go home, we went to the bus. She told me I'd got 5+ points because of dropping her of. I responded with "Great.. just 10 more points and I rose from the level of friend to boyfriend" and threw in a smile. The funny thing is that her reaction was as expected - she laughed like hell. Anyways just before she left I asked her the following question:

Me: So do you like to get dirty?
Her: Yeah.. but do I have to wait 5 months for that?

The dirty was because I would take her on a special date.. rather strange one for that matter but you can interpretet it on 2 ways. The 5 months is because that date can only take place in summer (July/August.) Anyways - it's strange that she answered me like that because it got me thinking.

She loves dirty talk, so she must feel at ease with me really good.
On the other hand - there was almost no physical interaction between the both of us. Some light touching and she hardly touched me.. maybe because she felt 'strange' ?

Anyways - she went back to her place and I started calling my friends for the party.. There my mood went crashing down.. of the 15 friends I've invited.. 3 showed up. It was like WTF? I mean come on.. can't you take some time for some friends? Anyways - I didn't come to the city to be down, I came to party. So I called one of the girls I seduced a few months ago (she was going to celebrate too) if I could tag along with them to the club where we were going. She told me to meet in a karaoke bar.

So I went to there and like I felt so alone. I didn't know anybody.. luckily it were some cool people and I just started talking to the rather good looking girls over there. I walked in, did my thing and they all said "sure you can ride with us to the club.." The irony, it was in a limousine. I didn't have to pay, I could just enjoy - so I got into the limousine and just enjoyed sitting between the 2 girls.. hmm, Oohh what a feeling..!

In the club I met the 3 friends of mine and we just started cruising around. One of my friends had his girl with him and she had 2 other girls with her.. the MOMENT I came in to the set with 2 of my friends and the 3 girls.. the 2 girls that were single.. couldn't stop looking at me. I danced with them, made them laugh.. but they were resistant to my actions to escalate.. Problebly because my attraction towards them was rather low. I just wanted to have fun.

So I went on and got back to the birthday group from that one girl.. there I was talking to the birthday girl when suddenly another girl tabbed me on the shoulder to talk to me. This girl has been neglecting me completely through social mediums such as FB & messenger. However, I decided to ignore her then on the club event.. after 10 minutes being there it seems she had to talk to me. The funny thing is that the subject was about her new boyfriend.. the one I picked out for her because she didn't dare too. The irony of the matter being is that when I was talking to her I didn't gave her any bodylanguage attention. I listened but my eyes were constantly everywhere over the entire room - except on her.. she couldn't stand it.. started laughing with me, touching me... strange.

She's with that guy but flirts the shit out of me.. so strange?
Even though she's hot as hell, I didn't feel a lot of attraction for her.. maybe because she didn't pay me attention until I neglected her?

Anyways - overal had a few good moments. I kissed another girl and ended up in my bed pretty late. I dropped by at some event on my way home where my ex works.. she told me I looked really good. Strange - when we were together she didn't gave me any attention and now when she's together with a guy.. i'm getting it all.

Girls think that they can do whatever they want when they are in a relationship.. or is it just me?
I always seem to attract girls that are occupied rather then the single ones.. anybody has an idea about the cause of this?

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She's a sexual being, she loves fucking. Just escalate as fast as possible, you could easily turn her into a fuckbuddy.

Sexual yes, fucking yes problebly. But fast escalation seems to be out of the question with this girl. I'm getting a really insecure but safe vibe from her.. she really doesn't wish to respond too fast towards these kind of movements.

And to be honest, turning her to my fuckbuddy isn't my intention..

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Like-minded girl follow up

Allright, so I texted her today with some basic questions.. since she had to work during holidays & shit. Anyways here was her response:
Now I really like this girl.. She got brains, she's cute.. damn those eyes. Everything I want in her. But everytime I try escalating verbally or physicly she backs out or flakes on me.

Strange girl.

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What does she mean with this? What is sucky?

By the way, it's probably, not problebly

And maybe she has fear of commitment, perhaps she just got out of a bad relationship... My suggestion is to try to set up a date in the daytime (go drink a coffee etc.), try to know about her background, history etc. So eventually she really clicks with you. Then she might open up and be receptive to kino. What do you think?

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Well - she was referring to the aunt and stuff asking why she did have a guy with her. That is was sucky that they kept asking.. I assume.
Yeah well - that could be.. She did have a LTR with a dude for about a year and a half. She said it was bad like 5 weeks of arguments and then a week nothing and then all over again. So it can be that she doesn't really feel like going back to that.

Well - it was during daytime, actually more pre-evening. But still daylight. We went sitting at a 'terras' - you know the tables not inside but outside the tavern. She said to me that she didn't really feel at ease when sitting down or something.. she likes walking more and then talking. Could be true, cause I noticed that she was a lot more closed. Maybe it's because that she's having trouble opening up when alone.

I was thinking about getting her to my hobby place. I'm a children animator in my country and I work at a childrens playground. She loves children so that's why I thought I could take her. It's active, around a lot of kids - so maybe she'll open up there. It's not a classic idea, it's out of the box aswell.

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I think that could be a huge possibility Hobbit. She knows I'm a joker but I don't think she knows that good enough so the odds of her taking this way to serious or feeling caged by it are pretty high I believe.

Thanks for the perspective. Now.. gotta see what I can do to make this right..
Better to wait for a couple of days I believe or to move on..

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