Hey everyone, new to the forum, long time reader, though. I've got a situation here that I'm having difficulty reading. I want to know what my next move needs to be, if any. Here's the back story...

Arranged a double date with a friend and two girls. I've known my date for about 6 months and he's known his date for a lifetime. He's stuck in friend zone and I've flirted with this girl for a while now. I arranged the date at a party.

We had a great dinner at a nice restaurant, good conversation, a few drinks, lots of IOIs. Touching, laughing, mirroring, etc. After that we went to another place, drank a ton, even more IOIs (practically hanging off me), knew I'd be able to get the much needed first date kiss, maybe more. However, I saw her texting some guy once she was drunk and flirting with some other guys she knew at the place. No big deal, I ignored it and flirted with her friend (who was on a date with mine, but uninterested in him). My date went to freshen up (something she did probably six times throughout the evening, weird) and left me at the table saying she'd be right back. I went and talked to a bunch of girls I knew sitting next to me. I didn't see her the rest of the night and left feeling quite disappointed, considering how well I thought it went and how rude it was considering the amount of money I spent on dinner and drinks.

Next day she texts me first thing in the morning saying she had a great time. Apologized for being so drunk and taking off and promised that she wouldn't drink so much next time (hint at a second date). I think they left because it was such an awkward situation with the other couple in our double date, but that's just speculation. Anyways, we texted throughout the day, nothing was really said. Talked about meeting up sometime in the next few days. I didn't talk to her all weekend and was kinda shocked she didn't text me, as I anticipated she would. I text her today briefly, conversation wasn't going anywhere and she stopped texting me, despite my last text being a question.

So this is where I'm at now. I see her a few times a week and run into her and her friends frequently. What's my next move? Where'd I go wrong? Did I go wrong?

Thanks, guys. I appreciate your help and I'm looking forward to being an active member of this forum.

I'd appreciate some input!

My input isn't great, but i'll try and help as much as I can...

I recently had the whole texting someone else whilst drunk and with you scenerio, however it was in Germany, with a girl I had known for a few months.. and considering she was texting in German, I didn't have a bloody clue what it said! Although suprisingly nothing really happened that night, apart from a few kisses (and despite the fact she shared a bed!) so yeah, it can't be a great sign. Maybe she's got an ex/was seeing somewhere and she's still got feelings?

If I were you, i'd just act very carefree with her, if she isn't going to reply to your texts (especially if she's ignoring questions) then I wouldn't go chasing her. If you want to text her again give it at least a few days i'd say, no-one likes desperate guys.

End of the day if she's being like that mate, she isn't worth your time!