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what do you want from her? just sex? if thats the case shes going to get hurt anyway

I was going for short term intimacy. Just not sure if I can stretch the process leading to that over such a long time before she visits.

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Raise your hand if you thought OP was gonna talk about dick size from the thread title.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

= just sex. in which case, take what you want and get out. then she will learn to avoid manipulative assholes like you! =)

wanting sex doesn't make someone a manipulative asshole.

sex is a basic human need.

at least the guy has the intellectual honesty to realize what he wants.

you don't like sex?

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Yep! I have a filthy mind, what can I say

i think you're kidding yourself when you say "I'm in the game to make women feel good" because gaming will ultimately lead to them getting hurt if all short term flings.

if you really dont want to hurt her, its better to let her down sooner rather than later and as gently as possible

no, wanting sex doesn't make someone manipulative...but calling something a "short term intimacy" when it's really just a casual fuck does. i object to this guy "gaming" a woman when he clearly has no feelings for her.

just telling it like it is.

Wow, when I read the title I thought you were worried about tearing her up or something like that.

Got no need to worry man, she wants it.

fFuck. IDK what happened to my post

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You are debating semantics. "Casual Sex" , "Short Term Intimacy" ... who cares? The guy has a right to get his rocks off. It's not like he is going to rape this girl, for Christ's sake. If he sweeps her off her feet, makes her feel special, makes her feel close, and makes her desire intimacy, maybe even short term intimacy, maybe even ... here it comes ... fucking! What is the problem with that? It's between consenting adults. You act like a girl who spreads her legs and hops on the love-bone is an innocent nun or something.

And also, you said "I object to this guy "gaming" at woman".

Dude, this is a pickup artist website. The entire things is dedicated to gaming women. Gaming doesn't have to carry a negative connotation. Women play more "games" than men, and the number one things women like is "men with game".

Frankly, you sound like an angry militant lesbian in disguise trolling on a PUA website.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Since this has become a debate of semantics, like Mack has pointed out. Let me rephrase: Is the long distance time and effort that I will be spending over the next months worth a fun couple of weeks in the summer?

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Only you know if it's worth it to you. To me this whole thing sounds like you can't quite manage her expectations and she's too much into you, so you want out because you're afraid of looking like a jerk.

Angry militant lesbian, LOL:) I've met these before and I agree.