Hey guys,

So I met a girl about 3 weeks ago and have been posting my progress as I have been moving a long. I met her at a club, HB8/9. Got her number, went on 2 dates so far. She seems fun and interesting, and I still am curious about getting to know her more and playing it out. From our interactions Im certain she has fun and loves spending time with me also. We text very regularly and talk on the phohne a couple of times a week. However, one thing I have noticed, is that I always have to initiate the texting. She is never the one to do so. If I dont text her, I wont hear from her. I talked to her last night (phone - Sunday) and plan not to contact her today (monday) and Tues atleast to see if she decides to initiate contact. I want to use this as a gauge of her level of interest.

Another thing I wanted to ask is, she is an attractive woman, as such she goes on many dates, which does not intimidate me or bother me at all. And so far, I have been able to stand out, "I've never met a guy like you" blah blah.

One thing I want to escalate is physically. I still have not been able to K close. On the second date, I tried to escalate physically with kino, hand touching etc. She does not like PDA which makes it tougher. How do I make her want me physically? One thing I have stacked up against me already is she goes for guys who are 6 feet tall usually. I am trying to break bounds here being 5.7ft tall... I am in great shape, built and toned, so its not like im skinny or something. Any ideas for me guys?

Thanks once again, and you guys rock!

Game isn't fair. There's no such thing as 50/50 unfortunately. I am tired of seeing others get frustrated over this like I have before. Not expecting shit is the best way to go. You're not being sexual enough with her and you know it since you feel like you haven't really escalated. Just act like you want to do her now, that will get rid of all the other bullshit and get YOU where you need to be.

Getting good reactions from her don't mean shit. You think you're doing good because she SAID you're different from most guys. Therefore it's becoming about you as a person and no longer about offering her the sexual pleasure; that's selfish man. This is where you fall hardest and take shit personally because when you fall at this point, you'll feel as if YOU aren't good enough. Stay quiet and be physical/seductive. In case of rejection, try again without laughing or getting mad, just don't react to her rejections. She calls you a pervert..fine, she's just trying to scare you away. You'd be surprised that she wants to get down and dirty more than you do.

You know what works really well? Instead of getting an erection thinking about her on your own time, try to get it when you're with her.

Thanks man!