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PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 3:00 pm 
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Ok, so two part question, this keeps happening to me and it's a bit annoying...

Quite a few times now I've met a girl, and I've not been able to close her as quickly as I would usually because of logistics. This has never happened with a girl I've actually had sex with, just the ones I haven't been able to... So I try to get them to meet me again, and they tell me "yeah I really wanna see you, I'm just really busy at the moment with work/college/family etc.". They keep telling me the same thing everytime I ask, until they end up with some other guy.

So my first question is how do you prevent that from happening?

And my second question - what do you do once a girl has a boyfriend?

I'm not really interested in trying to break up relationships, I think that's wrong. I want to know what's the best thing to do? Wait for the guy to fuck up/for them to break up and make your move? How do you stop her from LJBFing you when that finally happens? Or would you forget it, add her to your social circle, and fuck her friends?


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Ok, so two part question, this keeps happening to me and it's a bit annoying...

Quite a few times now I've met a girl, and I've not been able to close her as quickly as I would usually because of logistics. This has never happened with a girl I've actually had sex with, just the ones I haven't been able to... So I try to get them to meet me again, and they tell me "yeah I really wanna see you, I'm just really busy at the moment with work/college/family etc.". They keep telling me the same thing everytime I ask, until they end up with some other guy.

So my first question is how do you prevent that from happening?

And my second question - what do you do once a girl has a boyfriend?

I'm not really interested in trying to break up relationships, I think that's wrong. I want to know what's the best thing to do? Wait for the guy to fuck up/for them to break up and make your move? How do you stop her from LJBFing you when that finally happens? Or would you forget it, add her to your social circle, and fuck her friends?
1. They're avoiding you because they sense that you'll definitely expect sex from them the next time, and they want to avoid that pressure by just not seeing you. Your options are - don't even kiss until you're in a place where you can have sex, make sure you handle logistics early, invite her the next time to something where sex probably wouldn't happen anyway (like a daytime date), friendzone her.

2. Add her to your social circle and fuck her friends is the right answer. To keep open the possibility of fucking her later, make sure to friendzone her friends too. When women try to isolate and game YOU, they will be far more discreet and not tell each other. That means you can be fucking 2 or 3 within the same circle and they can remain non the wiser.

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2. Add her to your social circle and fuck her friends is the right answer. To keep open the possibility of fucking her later, make sure to friendzone her friends too. When women try to isolate and game YOU, they will be far more discreet and not tell each other. That means you can be fucking 2 or 3 within the same circle and they can remain non the wiser.
Reminds me of what I actually intended to do with a girl a few months ago - didn't go as planned tho. The group was kinda really close and they knew it directly. However - I let her do the things she wanted while still being under my controlled supervision.

Could be that my frame was bad though, changed a lot since then..

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Ok, so two part question, this keeps happening to me and it's a bit annoying...

Quite a few times now I've met a girl, and I've not been able to close her as quickly as I would usually because of logistics. This has never happened with a girl I've actually had sex with, just the ones I haven't been able to... So I try to get them to meet me again, and they tell me "yeah I really wanna see you, I'm just really busy at the moment with work/college/family etc.". They keep telling me the same thing everytime I ask, until they end up with some other guy.

So my first question is how do you prevent that from happening?

And my second question - what do you do once a girl has a boyfriend?

I'm not really interested in trying to break up relationships, I think that's wrong. I want to know what's the best thing to do? Wait for the guy to fuck up/for them to break up and make your move? How do you stop her from LJBFing you when that finally happens? Or would you forget it, add her to your social circle, and fuck her friends?
1. They're avoiding you because they sense that you'll definitely expect sex from them the next time, and they want to avoid that pressure by just not seeing you. Your options are - don't even kiss until you're in a place where you can have sex, make sure you handle logistics early, invite her the next time to something where sex probably wouldn't happen anyway (like a daytime date), friendzone her.

2. Add her to your social circle and fuck her friends is the right answer. To keep open the possibility of fucking her later, make sure to friendzone her friends too. When women try to isolate and game YOU, they will be far more discreet and not tell each other. That means you can be fucking 2 or 3 within the same circle and they can remain non the wiser.
Yeah that makes sense, thanks :)


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