If you're a pussy then yes.

yes, even if you aren't a pussy.

you could be a kickass mma fighter, but if brock lesner or dwayne "the rock" johnson shows up, guess who's bone yer chick?

being out-alpha'ed is being out-alpha'ed whether you are a pussy or not.

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Yes, besides being a pussy. If you got a dumb chick, then that's a problem. It don't matter whose more alpha. If the Rock comes along and fucks my chick, then my chick was stupid for blowing it all on a fun 30 minutes not knowing what she had. Some girls are like that, no self-respect.

There are actual statistics on these things:

(these statistics are for marriage, it is assumed in casual relationships, percentages are even higher)

50% of men cheat
50% of women cheat
75% of relationships will be "touched" by infidelity
66% of women end the relationship, this number grows to 90% when they are college educated.

Do your own math, lol.

To the modern female...men are disposable.

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Not all, just most.

It's wise to keep in the back of your mind that they are capable of cheating. It boils down to whether they have the moral upbringing to break it off with your before they pursue someone else or just have some fun on the sides. At this point in my life, if a girl cheats on me, it's nothing at all to get upset over. She simply didn't have the character to break it off with me like or voice her concerns about our relationship like a real woman.

Instead of asking a question like this that im sure you already KNOW the answer to, learn to shrug off things like this as a sign of bad character and move on. You CAN learn to be a better boyfriend and I encourage this, but in the end if a girl wants to cheat, she most likely will. Alot of times, and this is the kick in the ass, you cant do anything about it. Why bust your balls to please a woman who at the drop of a hat will fuck another guy?

There are better guys out there than us. There are better women out there then them. This is why I dont condone relationships at a young age. Unless two people are ready to give themselves fully to another, either man or woman is capable of cheating. I dont expect to tie down a hot 20-something and expect her to never think of fucking another guy regardless of how well I might think we "click".

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Must be because after college most men are pussies; they become more formal/lose their attractive qualities they had at their less mature level (being daring, sexual).

Really good point.

Alan Roger Currie in his book Mode One talks about how his pussification happened when he went to college and started acting more polite and respectful towards women, making him get friendzoned a hell of a lot more. Once he reversed that and started telling women exactly what he felt, his results improved.

As for being cheated on, it's not just down to this idea of being alpha. Don't think that because a girl cheats on a guy, she's going with the guy who somehow "out-alpha'd" the other guy.

I was looking at a photo album of this girl who's a friend of mine and was dating a friend. It was an album of guys she would fuck, and it included people like Zack Braff and Jamie Cullum (who btw is going out with a supermodel twice his height!) These guys do not exude alpha qualities at all. Sometimes a girl will cheat on a really alpha, attractive guy, because the other guy is sensitive and gives her an emotional connection she doesn't get with the guy she's with. You can't possibly know.

If you're worried about being "out-alpha'd" or trying to figure out how to out-alpha other men, you're already doing it wrong. You should simply be trying to be the best lover she's ever had, give her great experiences, and be comfortable enough in yourself that she's happy with you, whilst at the same time not hanging your hopes, your sense of self-worth, or your true happiness on her, anything she says, or anything she does.

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I'm sure there is some of that going on, however, it would foolish not to realize that an independent (and potentially wealthy) woman simply has more options and is able to sustain higher standards in her mates.

And remember, the statistic wasn't about men who went to college, it didn't even mention that, it was about "female" college graduates and how they behave in relationships. The more educated, the more empowered...the more likely she is to walk away. It's truth.

Alpha or not. Sexy or not. Spontaneous or not. Cocky and funny or not.

It's simple mathematics: a woman who needs help paying for baby milk and diapers is more likely to stay with a man regardless versus a woman with a bmw and a six-figure salary.

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