Outcome dependence seems two-fold in my eyes. Honestly speaking, if I see a HB and want to fuck her...I wanna fuck her! Thats what my outcome is.

It seems like detaching from outcome dependence gets easier as you build a network of women; for the mere fact of having options. If something doesnt work out with one...you gotta plenty more to choose from..no biggie right?

But what about the guys who new to the game and have NO female connections. Everyones gotta start somewhere and getting a k-close or f-close is a desire. and if its not met, its kinda a bummer.

When I approach, My goal is the lay her in the end. The interaction and outcome is my motivation.

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Pick Up is a skill set that can't be learn over night or a over couple months period. It a long road with no shortcuts. Having all the material provided about pick up and applying it is like taking that long road trip in a Ferrari rather then a beat up
SUV. It will help you get there quicker.

I was in your situation and it took me over 2 years before having network of women. I got lucky in between and hooked up buts that is about it. Nothing solid.

One way to let go of your outcome is to small chunk your game as taught by Style. Meaning first you just practice opening. After you got then down, learn negs, DHV. Don't do it all at once.

If you wanna lay her (I am assuming SNL), sorry to burst your bubble but its not gonna happen like that. You need game. You need to small chunk it. One thing I would suggest working on if you wanna do SNL is Push and Pull. Another is having a reason why a girl would wanna come home with you besides having sex. Maybe you got some cool home movies you wanna show her.

Thanks man, I appreciate your advice and input

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