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PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2011 11:55 pm 
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Opened this girl at a club last week, quickly won over her friends. Kept things fun and interesting with all of them, negged my target playfully. Included her friends in the conversation. My target kept telling me she had never met anyone like me... ect. They asked me to come out to breakfast with them but I really had to get home.

Saw them again last night. My target and I immediately fall into another comfortable rapport. My target told me she had hoped they would see me there. We exchanged numbers right away. They told me I had been the topic of conversation after they left last week, and that I had again been the topic of conversation on the way there. They strongly hinted that one of the girls from the previous week (who was not there) was interested in me (I'm not interested in her.) They introduced me to a friend of thiers who wasn't there last week. She really wanted to dance, so even though I hate dancing, I danced with her for a couple of songs.

As the night went on I got some kino going with my target and I am getting some IOIs. I tell her I have to take off and she begs me to stay for 30 more minutes. I agree, telling her she is a bad influence. Later, I was dancing with all three of them. My target isolates me on the dancefloor and grinds on me a bit. She then asks if I like the friend I had been dancing with earlier. I tell her that the friend isn't really my type. She then offers to hook me up with any of her friends I like. I tell her if I were going to hook up with anyone in her group it would be her (I know this probably was the wrong way to handle this) She responds by saying "Good, cause I really want us to be good friends." At first I wasn't sure how to take this. Then she says if I see any pretty girls I am interested in she will help me out. I say "Wow, you are desperate to be my wing-woman aren't you?" She laughs.

So after saying she wants to be "friends" and offering to be my wing-woman I pretty much figure this is her telling me I am in the friend-zone. After the 30 minutes are up I tell her I have to go. She insists I CALL (not text) her so that she knows I got home safely, even though I hadn't drank at all that night. When I call, she tells me her and one of her friends (who has a boyfriend) had really wanted to take me out to breakfast.

So, am I in the friend-zone?
Does she feel guilty cause her friend likes me?
Was she just feeling me out to see if I liked one of her friends better than her?
Is there something else at play?


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 12:36 am 
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When she said you and her are going to be good friends, you should have gotten closer to her and grabbed her by the hands and looked at her in the eyes seductively saying, "Is that so?"

Negging, teasing, cocky & funny and all that other bullshit is nothing compared to being seductive. You don't gotta run your mouth so much. Keep silent as much as you can and escalate.


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