Ok so we went out last night and met a couple of girls. We danced with them and each one of us danced with a specific chick of the group. Would you just add the chick you danced with or the whole group? By the way we didn't really talk to every girl of the set, but we talked to atleast 2-3 girls in the 8-sets.

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Bump.

I added the chick I grinded with. What about the others?

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nope. unless i talked to them and had an interesting conversation with them, i wouldnt bother adding them. thats me. i thought girls got weirded out if people they didnt talk to added them on fb

add them and see if you can get them to have sex with you!

No. My rule of thumb is unless I've made out with a girl then I don't even take her number, let alone FB which is a bigger deal as it's public and her ASD can kick in because her friends will see her adding random guys and any messages on your walls. A number is more private.

I like to sexualise it up front. I'm thinking of changing this to unless I get a SNL I don't take their number. If you meet up with a girl after you were making out which each other all over the club or fucking her that night, then you generally know it's on for day 2 and you're not wasting your time.

But as a guy I'm DTF. Lots of my friends don't follow this approach because they want "nice girls" and do just get numbers without having much if any physical/sexual interaction with a woman.

However they then get pulled into long day 2 and day 3 seductions which they can't emotionally handle yet, i.e. they get worried and upset when 95% of the girls don't reply to their texts or pick up their phone calls, or if they do meet up they end up getting friend-zoned etc.

So it depends if you're DTF or not. Although all of my long term relationships (2+ years & talking about marriage) I met the way I've described. There's nothing wrong with having great sexual chemistry with someone from the start. If you haven't then gauranteed for every woman a bunch of other guys have.