Today, Truebliss, my wing, and I were supposed to go daygaming to try some new things but a bad day at work can really change a person's mindset and motivation. No approaches for me today. I ditched. I simply could not focus on the game after this afternoon. It's impressive how your mind works...after noon I was like "lets do this", then 30 min later I was like "oh shit". Tomorrow is the day though! I can't let my job put me down like I did today - But it is definitely harder to overcome fear of losing your job as opposed to fear of rejection. if someone can do it, teach me!

Goals for tomorrow at the mall:

1. 5 indirect approaches (depending on how full the mall is)
a) mystery method
2. 3 direct approaches (HB8,9,10)
b) 60 yoc style
3. Work on hesitation

Day 6:Having a Good Time - PART 1

Daygame
I feel like I have improved a lot since the last time I've gone daygaming and nighgaming. However, I just started this new job and the first week is killing me. It's like I have no energy for anything else, but the plan was to go sarging at the mall with my wing, Truebliss, and I did!

Man I gotta tell you. It's hard to find really attractive women at the mall in Edmonton. It takes you a while to see them, and if you hesitate much, then you gotta spend at least half an hour to look for another one. I have been able do deal with AA, thus, my main goal now is to approach 9s and 10s cause I still get some anxiety when it comes to approaching stunning women. The fact that I am able to approach pretty much anyone at daytime though is an improvement. Truebliss and I walked for a while, each one of us did some approaches.

First set - I went to Urband behavior. I opened 2 HB 7 with the V-neck opener. Again, they responded well to it because I've been able to convey my opener in a calm way now. But after a few sentences I ejected - I have to focus on keeping the convo going.

Second set - Serbian girls - truebliss and I spot a HB8 ( 9 for body, and 7 for face), along with a BBW2(big big woman..yes, she was big). Some guys in front of us were staring at HB8's ass haha. I just look at my wing with a "wow she's hot" look and he says "You've got nothing to lose" As soon as he says that I start walking faster to catch up with those girls. Once I'm beside them, I only turn my neck and engage the conversation. ( As mistery would say, when you face them, it demonstrates too much interest)

I ask what they think of v-neck tshirts on men and they both says it depends on the guy. It might look gay if it's too low. Then the BBW2 says that It looks good on me, and it could be a little lower since I'm european. HB8 agrees and at this time she made a hardcore EC. Anyways, I tell them I'm not european (even thought I am partially) and ask them to guess where I'm from. They couldnt guess and as soon as I say Brazil....
HB8 gives me the biggest smile I've ever seen! I liked it. and BBW2 starts saying that I'm hot in portuguese lol - she knew a few words in portuguese. They both agreed that I look good with the vneck, again. The reason why I like the v-neck opener is because you get them to compliment you, and to analyse you by taking a deep look at you

Alright, I find out those girls are from Serbia. I really love eastern european girls so I compliment them. I asked them what they think of Canadian guys...they said they're alright, then I asked what they think of Brazilian and europeans guys...they said they're hot. good. By this time, HB8 waas making much more eye contact..I negged her a few times but I've gotta work more on negging.

Turns out it was BBW2's birthday and they invite me for dinner, since they were heading to the restaurant at the mall. I say I gotta meet up with a friend. then they invite me to a club where they're gonna celebrate her birthday with a whole bunch of serbian girls....nice...I say im might go and Ill bring a friend - truebliss.
I'm going to be posting soon how the night went with the serbian girls

This is good. I could have gone for an instant date and still got invited for the party. My plan was to win BBW2's approval so I could get to HB8 easily. but I tell what happens later.

third set - I used the tattoo opener but they weren't really interested so I eject. Maybe I should focus on the V-neck opener.

fourth set - A cute HB8 seller approaches me at ALDO. I was looking for necklaces but they all sucked haha. so we talk for like 10 minutes. I neg her a few times, high five her. We had a really good talk about Europe. Since she's been practicing french and is going to visit the country next year, I told her some things about Paris. She could definitely see that I'm a pretty passionate guy. OMG her accent french accent was so cute. Anyways, I tell her to give me her celphone so we can continue the conversation but she says she has a boyfriend. Whatever, at least this time I went for it instead of wondering if she would have given me her celphone.

After this I go to a store to buy a blazer. I asked for a few opinions and my wing and I leave the place.

Debriefing

I noticed yesterday that I'm pretty different now. The game has already been changing me. 2,3 months ago, I would sometimes avoid talking to people at the mall. At times I wouldnt even go in a store because I know the seller is gonna try to sell me something. Now, I a social guy who isn't afraid to talk to people. I still get hesitation of course...hell, this is day 6. I've got plenty of time still to get over hesitation. Now, I'm sociable, confident, and I go for what I want. I'm starting to bring conversation skills into the game but I still have lots to improve. The main thing though is that I don't get AA anymore. the nervousness doesnt take over my body anymore when I approach hot ladies. Maybe because i've been going too much indirect ? I have to try direct approaches.

What to improve on
- Be less casual, make more jokes - C&F - I totally forgot about C&F today.
- Create attraction with DHV routines and C&F statements
- Never hesitate. It's hard to find a lot of HB in the mall

I'll post the PART 2 soon!

Day 6:Having a Good Time - PART 2

Alright! So Truebliss and I get ready to go to The Pint to meet those serbian girls. We were hoping they had a lot of hot friends. I was feeling pretty pumped about this night; especially because I knew the birthday girl would introduce me to everyone so the key here was to make a good first impression. PUA style!

Quick tip - I would advise that you guys do some daygame approach in the same day you're gonna go nightgaming. It definitely boosted up my confident and my positive mental state. try it out! I hadn't figured this out since this Friday

At The Pint

Blazer on a v-neck tshirt. shirt tucked in to show off nice metal belt buckle. Slick jeans. Classy Italian shoes. Yea. I was feeling like I'm the shit that night! Truebliss and I agreed that we had to build positive social momentum within the first 30 minutes otherwise it would adversely affect our mindsets.

As we get in, I say hey to some guys. Ask them how they're doing. The place was pretty full. There was a nice dance floor with a lot of hotties. But my wing and I proceed to looking for the serbian girls. I was suprised. BBW2 saw me and she gave me a big hug. a huge hug comming from her lol. then she calls HB8 maya...wow Maya, she was looking hot.

BBW2: Hey Maya! It's the mall guy. He's here!
HB8: (she sees me gives me a big smiles and come hug me) Heyy, I thought you weren't gonna come!

BBW2 wanted to introduce me to her friends but I interrupt her and introduce my wing to them. Right after, BBW2 shows us her friends. All of them were Serbian...pretty hot. So my wing talks to his target and I engage a convo with HB8 and a friend of her.
I used some routines from mistery method and it works.

ME: Are you guys like best friend ?
HB8: pretty much why ?
ME: Oh, it's just that you guys got the same facial expression
HB8: HAHAH really ?
ME: you did it again!
HB8: ahahhaha
ME: I'm trying to figure out who's the good girl and who's the bad girl though.
HB8: We're both angels
ME: haha You're a good liar

at this point If i remember it right, BBW2 shows up and says:

BBW2: Heyy he's got a nice v-neck. isn't it maya ? (that's from the v-neck opener I used)
they both look at my chest
HB8: Yea, I'm wearing a v-neck too.
Then I look at it and see those beautiful boobs..............................................
I was speachless lol.

My wing, I, HB8 and BBW2 take a pic together, and then I put both my hands on their shoulder and invite them to a house party that's gonna happend at Truebliss's place. His place kicks ass. perfect for a house party. BBW2 says she will be in Europe but HB8 Maya will go for sure. HB8 agrees and she seemed excited (I should have number closed her right there)

At this point my wing and I decide to take a walk and do some approaches....so he opens a 2-set and I go to the dance floor.. Nothing happens there so we go back to our table and I tell HB8 to go dance. She said she wanted to stay in the table and this is were I fuck everything up............................................................................

ME: I thought that you girls from SIBERIA were cool!
HB8: I'M NOT FROM SIBERIAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (FUCK, she's from Serbia)
she laughs (In a bad way) and walks away to talk to a guy friend of her......
FML.

BBW2 comes to me and thanks me for showing up. She said that people that she knows for 20 years didn't show up. But I, a random guy from the mall, showed up. That was cool lol. She was all over me though :S

Dance floor

My wing and I go to the dance floor to try some dance game. we find a spot and as soon as we get there. I high five a girl. We were just having a good time in the dance floor. I see this HB7.5 that makes EC, so I spin her and ask if she's having a good time. but the dance floor was so full that we got separated. there was a wall of people blocking us. So as I leave the dance floor a HB8 pulls me back and ask me how I'm doing. I spin her around and it was funny cause she spun like 10 times in a row. I high five her. We talk for a bit and I ask her to introduce me to her friends...blablablablabla...I used the same routines there but I went nowhere.

Anyways, I say bye to my Serbian friends...I number close HB8 maya...but she looked like she wasn't into me like before....i think she got offended with the SIBERIA thing hahahahaha...anyways, she said taht she would maybe come to the party. I number closed her anyways. and I leave.

Debriefing

This night made me realize that pretty much no guys approach women at the mall. When people like us do. They like it. I made a really good first impression to those Serbian girls...the proof is that both of them hugged me and were happy to see me at the party. I didnt come off as a creep.
People are bored most of the time when they go shopping, so why not go talk to them, make them smile, amuse them ??? I'm glad I started practicing daygame...I'm really confident now and the AA is pretty much gone.
Although I messed up with my target last night, I still think it was a success. I number closed her. I made a good impression to her friends and I was the social guy in there. They coul clearly see that I was having a good time. I didn't see my wingman much at that night, he was doing some approaches solo since his Serbian target left early and he didnt want to talk to the gay guys that were by the table.

What I did right

- I had the "im irresistible" mindset
- I was pretty social and showed that I had a good time
- I open in a confident way
- I negged well my targets
- I didn't let my stupid mistake affect my night

What to Improve on

- Mid game
- Creating attraction
- do NOT mistake Serbian girls with Siberian gilrs HAHA

Alright boys! ill be posting my saturday night soon. I've been writing too much.
Again, feel free to criticize my game. This is only day 6; thus, Ive got lots to learn still.

peace!

Day 7: Hitting up the clubs with a pro

As David Deangelo and Vin Dicarlo would say, you gotta find friends and meet people who are better than you. Watching how they interact with women, their body language and getting advice from them is extremely important. Truebliss met a PUA last week and I got introduced to him. This guy's been practicing the game for 2 years and has attended Gambler's and Adam Lyon's bootcamp. Anyways, yesterday, I met up with this guy and one of his friends who has also attended Adam Lyon's bootcamp and we went clubbing.

At the treasury

My wing truebliss actually works at this club so we were all on the guess list. nice. The club is great. It's supposed to be a 25 yo + and there's definitely quality women in that environment.

Again we planned on building positive social momentum within the first 30 min. So all of us started approaching different sets regardless their level of hotness. I had no AA but the key here was to get in the mood for being social.

first set: 2 set - HB5

ME: Hey, you guys having a good night ?
HB5: yea, thanks, you ?
ME: I'm having a fantastic time
ME: Listen, I gotta go back to by friends soon but I need you're guys opinion on something.
HB5: Sure
ME: What do you think of V-neck t-shirts on men ?
HB5: Yea, I like it. It depends on who though.
ME: The reason I’m asking is because I went to this club last Saturday and this random girl came up to me and said I looked gay. She was touching my chest, my arm and being all sexual about it.
HB5: hahahaha

Blablablablabla...then they try to guess where I’m from and I negged them everytime they missed.After a while I say I had to meet with a friend. Eject.

Conclusion: talking to those girls really helped increase my social momentum and get me to the right mindset. My body language was pretty good, although I should have sat down with them for a bit. I was able to entertain them and make them laugh. I kinoed them. Overall, it was good.

After a while, I was chilling with my buddies and this HB6 approaches me and was all over me. It was her birthday so I was polite and we talked for a bit. nothing special.

2nd set: 6 set - HB5,6,7

I see a whole bunch of girls by a table so I tell one of my wingmen to show up a few minutes after opening so I can introduce him to them.
I used the same v-neck opener right there.

After the opener one of them was like:

HB6.5: "I wouldnt think you're gay. you dress well that's all but to prove us taht you're a man, you should buy us all a drink" shit test ? I think so.
ME: I'm not that easy.
HB6.5: With this (she touches my chest), you are!
ME: hahaha I'm a pretty confident man, buying you a drink would only prove you guys that I need to buy you things to get you to like me.
HB6.5: haha that's true

Then my wing shows up and I introduce them to him. We all talk for a bit and we eject. They weren't interesting.

Conclusion: I had no AA to approach 6 girls. I tried to engage all of them but It's hard to take control of a table with 6 women. I didn't come off needy or as a wuss. I showed them that they can't control me and I know what I'm doing.

3rd set: 4 set - HB7,8,9

A few hot girls were standing by the bar. They looked bored so I approach them. I don't remember the opener and after they were all trying to figure out were I come from and did really bad, I managed to get my two wingmen on the convo, and I approached 2 other friends of her HB8,9. I was kinoing one of them a lot, but somehow all of us ejected. I don't even remember why I didn't number close one of them. It was a good 15 minute convo though.

Conclusion: my kino game was pretty good. I managed to get 2 friends in the set.I kept the convo going. However, I ejected too early..

I opened other sets that didn't really go anywhere then we headed out to another club. The Vynil was empty...so I did some approaches and ejected - didn't really see anyone that I was interested in. So we head back to the treasury.
The place was packed now. A lot of interesting targets but it was almost time to go home.

4th set: HB 7.5

As I'm walking across the dance floor, a girl talks to me saying that a friend of her is interested in me. So we get introduced. I use a routine to make her laugh and DHV myself. Then the regular question pops up.

HB7.5: Where are you from ?
ME: Le'st play a game then. You got 5 chances to guess where I come from. If you guess it right, I'll get you a drink. If you lose..(then she interupts me and say)
HB7.5: If I lose I will dance with you.
ME: I had another idea in mind but nevermind. sure!
HB7.5: What is it ?
ME: I'll tell you later, don't worry.

We start dancing and she is grinding on me. after the song, we were talking but she was asking me boring questions so I take her hand and do some palmreading...she started to get really interested by it but the music was so fucking loud that I could barely hear her.
Now, I'm close to her. I say she smells good. She smells me and ask me what cologne I'm wearing.

ME:212 sexy men.
HB7.5: hahaha so you wear it hoping it will make you sexy ? shit test!
ME: Nahh, I don't need colognes to make me sexy. I'm sexy regardless the cologne I wear . (with a cocky smile on my face)
HB7.5: (giggling) That was a good answer! High five!

We talk for a bit and I tell her to give me her number. she said that she doesn't know me very well. and we dance. I ask again. She tells me to wait....and this is when I really was getting bored at this so I say

ME: Ok, last chance. Give me your number so we can go for some drinks and get to know each other better.
HB7.5: haha Last chance ?
ME: When I want something I usually go for it and don't give up easily. but I'm starting to change my mind.
HB7.5: Okay, 780-xxx-xxxx.

I was going to try kiss closing her but didn't feel like it because I didn't like the way she behaved at the end. it's weird but for the first time I actually said to myself "This chick doesn't deserve to be kissed". I think I'm starting to adopt the "I'm the prize" mindset. I can feel the change.

Debriefing

- Watching my PUA friend approach and number close was pretty good. I have absorbed a lot of info from that guy.
- Socializing and approaching any sets within the first 30 min will indeed set you in the right mental state. By doing this, I can assure myself I'm gonna have an awesome times at the club.
- I'm learning to recognize and pass the shit tests.
- I slow down in every aspect of the game now. however, I should find a way to number closs and kiss close faster.
- I'm starting to really enjoy playing this game! - My main focus when approaching is to have a good time, and make the girls comfortable with my presence