during the morning after she stood me up the night before, kinda :

her: hey im sry i told you I was on standby last night n I got called out & my phone was dead
(I think its packed w lies but thats just me, although im like 80% sure it is

Me: LOL oh well no big deal, I ended up going out w some friends all night

so 12 hous later

Me: hey u awake?
Her: ya
Me: hows your night going?
Her: boring yours?
Me: Got some friends over playing video games and drinking... So straigh to the point. I wish it was you here with me and not these guys. I like you "just a bit". Just dont understand why its so hard to see you all the time

What should I say?!?!

Quick background we have hung out couple times but her work sucks!! I know she likes me but for some reason we can hardly manage to be together. She know I dont mess around at all Im always very straight foward and the "just a bit" I always tease her about that.

after what I wrote about being hard to see her she wrote

Her: Its not hard

Though im no expert but im fairly good and i can see your flaw already.
Dont ever text her "Emotional" texts unless your 100% sure she likes you and you guys are in that "moment", That text took all the mystery and challenge out of you, and thats what keeps girls interested. She now knows she has to apply no work and she can have you if she wants now. Give it a few days and Try anouther text.

Try doin more Humor/Teaseing/Attraction, get her to laugh, The first Two,Humor and Teaseing build attraction. When you've done that Build Rapport/Comfort (Rapport's like trust) but just talking to her and getting to know her. Use anything she says to continue or start a new convo.

If she mentioned something cool before but you didnt want to screw up the Convo you had going say something sexual. Bring it back up to keep the talking going. Use Statements, never ask the same boring Interview "like" questions that she always gets. Statements come off less needy, Funner, and make her explain herself to you without you asking!

Hope this helped, i reccomend Braddocks "Ultimate Phone & Text Guide" im only on Chapter 5 and i Learned alot.

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lol thx man I figured as much. Its just frustarting that she is playing hard to get and she is only an HB7. Its like the uglier they are they harder they pretend to be hehe thx for the advise appreciate it.

Ok I'm no expert by any means but I think you need to back off to salvage this.

Like now, just stop texting her. Don't ask her how she's feeling. Let her ask YOU how you're feeling. If she stood you up like you said you should've just said "are you sure its tonight?/(was last night in your case). Well it's your lucky day, you've not blown your chance to see me" - like you are busy and aren't waiting on her.

Let her chase you, don't show any neediness or clingyness. You don't have time to think about 'liking' her because youre busy with your awesome life and all the many beautiful girls in it.

I can assure you she will show interest if you keep it CF/ relaxed. Especially if she's a HB7!

Just my thoughts, hope they help.

No problem all women are diffrent, and Stupid'er then others, sounds like this HB7 is full of herself, you'll come by come conceited low Number HB's unless there below that heh. Just IMO.

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