I went up to this girl in the most ridiculous of ways, covered completely in sand and offering "sand hugs" (we were drunk partying at the beach). She obliged, and I started talking to her. Long story short, I got her to leave the beach and join the BBQ at my house. She hooks up with my friend that night, and I didn't care (I pulled her for him initially because he was leaving the next day).

She kept hanging out with me & my friends, and I invited her over last week to cook for her. She declined because she "just got out of a serious relationship & didn't want to date anyone." A few days later, I find out this hoe goes out on a date with one of my friends. I called her out on it, and she admits it was a bitchy thing to do. I got her to meet up with me tonight, but she's just going to meet me somewhere... doesn't want me picking her up. Here's the last part of the text conversation:

Her: Can we make it 7?
Me: Sure, I'll pick you up then.
Her: I can meet you.
Me: I can pick you up. I'm a safe driver, don't worry.
Her: I'm good to meet you
Me: Ok, we'll just skip what I planned & do something else.
Her: I'm trying to accomodate you because you want to "talk" to me. figure it out or let it go

Should I just stand this girl up? I'm supposed to meet her at 7 tonight, and might be able to change her attitude, but I wonder if it's really worth my time & money. If it goes boringly, I think I would just tell the waiter "2 checks" pause, look at her and say "what you didn't think this was a date did you, we're just friends."

You need to let this one go. Remember your interactions with her and figure out where you messed up. You are being needy and she is turned off.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

Yeah, you're right. I think the problem is, the first week we were hanging out... I was wasted drunk too often, and probably being overly aggressive in every way. I'm just going to cancel.

hell yes! there are 3.5 billion of them and we haven't even scratched the surface.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

I would say "I don't feel accommodated by women trying to compare testicle size, and judging by your personality, you have them. I prefer vaginas. Peace out."

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!