Hi PUAs,

Situation:

There is this girl in my class although she is not a 10, I would say around 7 or 8 there is something about her that I cannot get over. At first, she sat on the other side of the classroom alone I did notice her but there is always this guy that went up to her and talked to her after class and he even ditched his guy buddy in class and went to sit beside her once. Later on I found out that this guy tried to ask every girl in class for coffee and for their facebook. Anyways, later on in the semester I have no idea what happened but she started to sit beside me (probably because some people took over her spot on the other side although I am sure there is like one spot for her over there anyways) But one day all of a sudden she sat back on the other side, and now she sits beside me again.

Her in person:
She is around 5'3, less than 100 pounds. She is a latina that loves asian culture a lot. She does not really care about how others think of her, and she would not change herself for anyone which means she is a tough cookie. She does not show her feelings much, she looks kind of cold but inside she is a sweet girl when I found out that she cried for the people in Japan. I found out that she likes korean music which I do as well, so I used that excuse to ask her to send me some videos and I got her on facebook now. So I first started off writing her private messages and she usually would reply back to me pretty soon. And I think the week before I added her, she ignored everyone's text and facebook because of her facebook and she apologized. She told her friend few weeks back that she would text her when she has time. And she usually posts news articles on fb, and her friends comment on them, but she does not comment back on there. She just became single a month ago too. She is pretty quiet and always on her laptop in class. But since we private messaged each other, while she is on her laptop she started saying random things a little more now so I would listen to what she says. And because she is passionate about korean music and she seems interesting and cute looking, some guys would ask her to go for coffee and some guy even asked her to marry him. And she said isn't this a bit too soon? she feels like they are moving too fast, and he said he moves quickly baby. And she did not reply back to him. I have a feeling that she does not like to be lonely and likes romance.

I also read PUA forums too, and I know I am having this wussy behavior right now. I think about her as soon as I have free time, I do not want to read her fb but cannot help it, etc. But a good thing is that unlike some of the guys I do not message her everyday, but when I get a reply back, I usually would reply back to her though. I do not give her too much attention in person, because I think that she is pretty introvert but on facebook I do...

So please give me some advices, thanks!

Talk to her, ask her out. Just go up to her and start chatting like you're old friends. Talk with the purpose of trying to find out 3-4 cool interesting things about her.

Don't just stalk her on facebook without ever talking to her, that's creepy and more importantly, it will make you feel bad because it will get you nowhere.

The PUA way is, talk to her, if it works out, it works out, otherwise move on. There are plenty of girls to choose from, never get hung up on one.

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