Okay this is going to be a longer post than usual sorry but PLEASE READ and give me insight.

Back Story

Close to a year ago there was a girl she is a HB 9 very pretty Ill call her Summer. So long story short shes in my class (college) we hung out a couple times out of class, I kissed her and we had good Alchemy going.

I find out she has a B/f and keep pursuing maybe to aggressively and she tells me to stop texting her and begins to avoid me and gives me signs to back up abruptly. I was going 90mph and out of no where a stop sign popped up and Im slamming on my breaks.

DAMN IM INTO THIS GIRL.....Ya'll


Fast Foward to present day

So its a year later and we still see each other in and out of college and we pretty much avoid each other, Ive moved on from my rejection.

Well me, my friend, and his brother are walking into class and I see her obviously I have told them about her and while walking by each other we both grow more uncomfortable. As my friend put it "it look like you were both held at gunpoint and were forced to walk" She was walking with some dude and while hes talking her ear off its going in one ear and out the other shes not even listening, shes turns and smiles and i give a quick wave.

My friend "what the fuck just happened?"
Me "IDK"
My friend "I just felt the awkwardness"

Im extremely confident no issues talking to girls Im extremely outgoing but my friends even noticed the inferior body language conveyed from both of us.

My friends brother "To have control over each other like that....thats just crazy."

Referring to how both of us tuned out and talked completely through language of body. And how she completely ignored her convo with some gorilla trying to game her to smile and acknowledge me, and vice versa.


PROBLEM= 1. Shes still with her Bf they were high school sweethearts and they are like glue
2. So many mistakes ive made already with her might be against me of the bat
3. Statistical rejection rate from this girl


MY Question

Obviously there has to be something there for other people to feel our energy and pick up on our body language.

I know I have to initiate conversation to open that door again.

Based on the information presented does it seem as if this could actually go anywhere? Or should I just leave it alone again? What do I say?

Im 23 shes like 19 its sooooo gay never had this with any girl

PLEASE HELP ME.

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Attraction is not optional - Lucky

Lol dude I thought I was the only one that behaved like that, like I could be alpha as hell around most girls, and then one girl makes me behave all weird and shit idk...
Anyways I think the door is still open, but I would go way slower than you did before, I say the door is still open because she is still acknowledging you, and obviously she sees you as an acquaintance, so why don't you just pick up ur balls and have a conversation with her,and don't be all nervous and jittery, just be cool like you usually are, and convey that confidence that you usually have, and then escalate from there, escalate slower though. Honestly only thing you can do is go up and talk too her and take it from there imo, I don't think any razzle dazzle amog pua bullshit tactics would work here.

Yeah thats what I was thinking too man no PUA trickery can really apply in this relation, one of my good friends thats a chick knows both of us and is getting mad at me for thinking about approaching her because she thinks that "summer" should have to initiate convo.

Should I just talk about everyday stuff? The regular?

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Attraction is not optional - Lucky