i just cant man i can sometimes but not when i really wanted this is the lowest im gonna let myself go anyone who has been here tell me how u got out of it .....
THANSK

How i started was

i went round asking what the time is.

Then i did that for a while.

Then i asked for other stuff.

Then i Continued the convo, a little after.

E.g. Wheres costa .... Her: blah blah ..... me: W8 you live around here right youre not telling me false directions etc....


Then i tried a Canned opener, and then for some reason i tried a canned dhv and etc... and i thought hey why im there i might aswell ask for the no.


I got the no. aww yeah

So lead up to it, and when you have the balls DO EVERYTHING you can think of!!!!

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follow the 3 seconds rule and just say something

everything is easy when you devide into small steps

i actually need to do this. i need to change im 18 now its time.. this i going to feel like social suicide but i have no choice

If you think you can't approach or think you can...either way you're right.

AA is hardwired into most guys as an evolutionary protective mechanism which got your genes down through history to where you are now.

The secret is: it can generate huge amounts of unease in you but actually it has no power over you, only that which you give it. Suppose you decided to give it no power at all? It's just synapses firing in the brain its not a physical thing in the real world; you can't "put AA in a wheelbarrow " and wheel it around as a physical object.

You say you can't approach yet if an eccentric billionaire came up to you in a bar and said "Hey dude approach that girl over there and I will give you a million bucks" you would do it pretty sharpish...yet have the laws of physics changed in your brain? No.

Just how you look at things.

Start with opinion openers. It's rejection which scared you. The beauty of an opinion opener is there is nothing to reject.

the thing is i have done it before and been succesful but i know that i cant do it every 'now and again' i must do it consistently now ive left it to long thats why i feel pressusre i want to do one approach a day and build on that for now but this is compulory for me


how do i get the feeling that i have to do it, bacuas i no i would if the billionaire was there i need that feeling of must rather than want perhaps i should list all the benefits of approaching and all the benefits of not approaching