Plan for tomorrow:

- get up early
- go to city
- open as many women as possible. start off small, go big


Plan for the end of the week: to start closing. I liked Tylerdurden's idea you should learn to start closing every girl you open (unless you get blown out). This way you learn to calibrate WHEN you can close a girl and also you'll learn which girls flake and which didnt so you can figure out whats working and what isnt.

So by the end of the week (sunday/monday) i should have STARTED to be trying to close every girl i game.

Not a perfectly well-planned plan but i dont want it TOO detailed until ive done the first day of opening hot girls then i'll see where im at and where i can go.

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
-Seth (Superbad)

Just thought i'd say. Ive given up this journal. I want to spend as much time away from the community. I started this journal in the hope someone would help me get started and tell me where to start from and what to do or give me guidance at least but that never happened so there's no reason to have this.

I'll work on getting better with girls as summer is coming and Nightgame will be better in my town etc

but i feel i think about all this game too much and spend too much time with no results. Which, i know, is a result of me not putting in enough effort into going out and opening/closing hot girls. Need a wing or more days to go out. I cant do street-daygame, its fucking impossible.

So from now on ill have a personal journal that go towards my goals:

getting laid before i head off to University
become decent at game ( opening and closing girls i want)
Taking action more
being more organised of a person and doing the things ive organised
Being an all-round social person


***this is all i want by the end of the summer and i have to head off to the city to go to university.

If im honest i believe i just dont have what it takes to become all this stuff. I feel i just dont have the guts to be making the approaches i should.

Anyway ill be off this forum till after the summer. Probably pop in a few times.

peace.

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
-Seth (Superbad)

If you're putting in the effort and it ain't working + it works for others, YOUR METHOD IS WRONG!

Openers don't matter. It's the emotion you convey that matters more.

You can say "Look at me, I'm a monkey *act like a monkey*" it will still work if you have the right emotions conveyed.

Nowadays for night game I simply put my hand forward and say "Hey, my name is TheApostle" with 100% certainty that the HB shall introduce herself, it works like dynamite. Of course, it took me some time to get to this (2 nights)

For day game I've used:

If I see her holding a ZARA bag. "Hey, does ZARA sell male underwear (with a sarcastic smile)" WORKS, she cracked up.

"Hey, I'm looking for Starbucks, my friend wants to get MARRIED THERE!"

If the HB is eating something "Hey, what are you eating?"

ALL WORK.

It can be the most retarded shit, it's HOW you say it that matters more than WHAT you say. SELF-AMUSEMENT is important.

YOU ARE ENOUGH! Forget the BS about the openers.

A more refined statement would be "There is no good reason that you are not enough!"

I have sent you a PM Shah check it out and reply.

Wait a minute Shahanshah... I'm not gonna let you leave like this... I've read your journal man... you know what, you are so better than me in night game... lol. I've been learning from you man. At the same time, I understand you when it comes to journaling... It's really important to have the input from the community to move forward.

As you know, I can't give a lot of advice since I'm still learning... but I can give you some insight about journaling. Find a parttern, and stick to it! It will be easier for you, it will take you less time to write and it will be easier to read! Improve the readability of your journal Sha and the community will follow. Take a look at Illogic's journal... it's really clean. Get a better/cleaner/simpler organization and the community will come to you Sha.
Day Game works better when you don't go out to do Day Game... So next time you're going to do some shopping, or going to the post, or... meet someone!
Man, I'm sooooo missing the balls to go for it too sometimes... I don't have what it takes either... but I will! And you too if you keep it up. We're all going through this Sha, you're not alone. I just hope you'll keep up posting some stuff from time to time!

TAKE CARE!

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On the Road to Manhood, my new learning journal: http://bit.ly/TEVapM
(My old learning journal http://bit.ly/eYRWL4)