I think you might have misinterpreted was I was doing. Im not trying to show her how alpha male i am. Im trying not to waste time and if shes not interested just cut it loose. Taohackne summs it up: She would have made her schedule known if she was interested. Maybe i'll flick her a text in a couple months when I remember her again. Or she might do that. Til then, meh.
On to the next one

Yeah true, but why not just call her? It would be much easier because if she picks up she'd be forced to give you an answer. If she declines, then next her. If you try in a couple months she'll probably have forgotten about you, or she'll be more interested in another guy. You need to move fast.

I guess it's probably the 'inner me' saying... 'the odds are she isnt interested and the one thing chicks hate is when you persist and persist when the cards (maybe only to them) seem clear on the table about them not being interested.' I havent been in contact with her since the last text I sent 11 days ago...neither has she... this tells me to drop it. No chick goes that long without texting if she is keen

yeah, don't just give up like that man, txt are bs, calls are win

Who cares if she hates it or not? Fuck her lol. You care more about whether you annoy her than the fact that there might be a chance she's still interested? Awww how cute If she wants you gone she should say so. Girls will play hard to get a lot of the time. Don't follow this "I am the prize and women should be really keen and chase me" bollocks. This is what they do. Until you get a "no" you don't know for sure. Also you're just assuming she isn't interested, you have no idea why she hasn't texted back. Maybe she was really busy and forgot? Just call her mate.

I disagree. If a woman is going to blow you off, yet you still persist in pursuing her, what are you actually pursuing? I'll tell you. A woman who blows you off.

I am the prize.

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She hasn't blown him off yet. He's just assuming she has. Make the ho say no

I totally hear what you are saying. This is totally one of those opinion things. I actually admire guys who can do it like you do it and just march forward boldly with girls.

I guess it all comes down to "what does someone define as the blowoff". Y'know?

For some people, the "blowoff" is being told "go the fuck away".

For others, it's when she stops calling, or texting, or being communicative, or showing interest.

I'm one of those second types of people. I figure if a girl doesn't seem to be continuing to appreciate what I am and who I offer enough to maintain some level of commitment to sharing time, then I just move on. Doesn't mean she is not worth pursuing as a piece of ass, but at that point (in my opinion) she isn't worth pursuing as a long term mate.

I don't need anyone that I have to continuously convince of my value as a long-term partner in life.

(I know this is kind of random theory I'm talking about, lol)

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totally agree with you mack, it's not so much about losing "the game" it's more of a "what will that offer me in the future, is it what i want?" kind of thing

Well it was about 4.45pm and I gave her a buzz. Didn't think about what to say etc just kinda lept in. I got voicemail and left one. ''Hey its chris, just wanted to see how you've been and what you've been upto. Gimme a call''.

I've always been that dude whos like.... yo, if she isnt replying or not giving me the time of day then fuckit. But since these posts I kinda feel like I should try out that 'Until she says go away, im here' attitude. Why give up easily? This is one of three i have got going on at the moment. One i just picked up on sat night, a 7. The other I met through a friend and am yet to set something up with. So even if this doesn't work out then Im still winning.

aye man good luck with that, whatever happens happens, fuck it you know

too bad for her, she'd be lucky to have ya

yeh straight up man, if she comes back then good but if not then fuggit. we'll see

How ironic is this. I go to type back into this post and go back to my room where I missed a call from her.... got a voicemail back. She was heading back from work (930pm) and said sorry i havent replied because Im really busy at work.

Well i know its early but im hell tired, sore as hell from the gym and I got an exam tomorrow morning so Im gna buzz her back tomorrow or friday...

hahaha


good to know man, do it friday and be like "whatsup, i know you totally miss me and have been completly frustrated cause i haven't said nothing to you for couple days, shhh, don't worry, it's alright, i'm here now"

would be funny just to piss her off a little

yeh haha i had a bit of a laugh at it myself lol. Yeah ill throw something good at her tomorrow.