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To build comfort for an SNL you need to show:
- Discretion, she needs to know you're not going to go bragging about it
- That you're not going to stalk her afterwards (she's probably had a few of those after a ONS)
- That you're non-judgemental, she doesn't want you to judge her as a slut
You can show all of this by just acting like you do it all the time. Talk about sex as if it's normal, ask her how she likes it, ask her when she last got fucked properly... Let her think you're amazing in bed.
Don't make an effort to come across as a good guy/boyfriend material as you would normally, just be shameless. Sometimes I even like to playfully try to convince her that I'm really innocent. We both know I'm talking bollocks, but it's funny because we both know I'm trying to get into her pants. They love it.
This + be sexual + kino = win.