yep.

ive recently been testing myself.. & crashing n burning intentionally.

why?

because it teaches you one thing...

you are who the fuck you are, and nobody else matters..

peoples opinions change every day.. every hour.. every minute.. how they feel about you is irrelevant as fuckkk... they love you then they hate you.. thats the nature of being social or having attention on you.

you dont really understand that until you run yourself completely into the wall & kill your ego nazi style...

Your always on some level being the real person u are.. and ur always on some level trying not to be that person...

but the real skill is to be able to express who you really are at your deepest level without forcing it.. to detach yourself from your desires n your feelings & truly live in the moment. & that means.. if ur not confident.. why fake it? be original, be complex, be ambiguous, be yourself. n not the superficial version of yourself... the real version of yourself..

Becoming that rock star we all wanna be is for whatever reason fundamentally designed by god, natural selection, the absolute w.e. you wanna call it.. to be painful, discouraging, hurtful.. & overall just an unpleasant muh fuckin experience lol.. there arent any free rides in this department.. & if u get one.. its prob not as free as you think it is... and i dont wanna get too spiritual.. but somewhere along the line you faith has to be tested.. you really have to go out on a limb, bite the bullet, & go against everything that feels comfortable for you.

40% of the battle is competency and willingness.. 60% is your spirit.. its intangible.. it cant be taught.. but without it, your fucked.

the only way to get it that I'm aware of is trial and tribulation.. so im dedicated, not to becoming a PUA, not to being the man.. But to fucking shit up.. continuing to get messy and letting the adversity purify my whole shit..

Take it how u want. one.

Why? What will this achieve?

What battle? Willingness for what? Where are these statistics coming from?

What are you on about?!
You're dedicated to "fucking shit up"... You're going to go to university and fuck it up? Get a job then fuck it up? Build something really good then fuck it up?

This very ambiguous post reminds me of Fight Club. You are not Tyler Durden and you are not in Project Mayhem (just so you know...).

I literally have no clue what your intended aim of this post is, sorry if it appears I'm taking the piss but could you please retype this with more clarity for my benefit, at least.

I actually have no idea what he's on about either. Are you saying to go and do crash and burns?

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
-Seth (Superbad)

no, im saying there is no answer.

there is no "go out and do this"

game is a way of hiding from rejection.

but being comfortable with rejection is the only way to really be confident.

you can never get rejected and one day have success in pick up.. or you can get rejected, learn who you are and what works for you.. and what day be your own individual who doesnt need game as a crutch but gets the same results.

it'll stop you from being a bitch and allow you a chance to develop perseverance
there not literal or objective.. nothing in this community is.
no.. dont ask questions about project mayhem.

Perseverence is learnt through sustained effort resulting in success. Not, "fucking shit up".

I wonder what has brought this on in you....

Going out against everything that you're comfortable with will allow you perseverance... or it'll demotivate you so much with the lack of progress that you will give up.

The statistics are not literal or objective? It's not conceptual art either. You can't just make things up and not give any evidence, not even your experience.

"The moon is made of cheese. I didn't mean that literally." Well how would the guy mean it then?

Some people come on this forum and soak up everything they see as "advice". Yes, they are stupid if they do that but you do have a certain responsibility for what you post - especially if you are posting things which you can't give any evidence for. It just makes it harder for people to sift through all of the drivel which comprises so much of the community.