So I was just in Mexico this past week, and had a lot of success. I usually have a bit of a hard time talking to girls when I first meet them, and then after that escalating and kino. Anyways I met this one girl and that night we got drunk. I found it so easy to talk to her and was able to k-close her, which was a pretty big deal for me. For the rest of the trip she was basically hanging off of me, and I had so much confidence that I was able to f-close her while I was sober. Basically I'm wondering how I can have this type of confidence all the time, and not have to rely on drinking to get interactions started?

That's easy, don't drink.

At home, you've got your friends, family, co-workers or classmates and you feel you have a certain place in society. You think if a girl face palms you or you make a fool of yourself, you'll no longer have a firm grasp of your desired position in society.

There are of course things you might do 'where nobody knows you' that are detrimental to your life in general. Most things however, won't affect you one bit. Write down all of these things and classify them. Simply do the things that are OK with your life + your hormonal needs and DO NOT do the things that will F up other parts of your life. (Judging by your post . . . this will probably be close to zero but WRITING it all down will help you to convince yourself.)

Its hard to keep that state of mind all the time. I still haven't perfected it yet, but i'm definitely getting there!

Just gotta keep practicing not giving a shit about anything! haha or in better words not giving a shit about what anyone thinks because you are going to be having more fun than any other bitch talkin shit about you