I'm relatively new to pua because I was in a long term relationship and recently got out. I have great text game and usually made day 2's via text

Now the silly question is this, I caught up with a girl I knew from high school via facebook (she messaged me first actually...IOI) and I got her number but I figured calling her would be more effective considering she hasn't heard my voice in so long and she could be intrigued by it.

So I called her talked for about 4 minutes and I told her to join me at a bar the next night and she seemed somewhat excited but had to check with her friend who she thinks she might have plans with and that she will "tell me later" if she can go


This was last night and it's approaching the afternoon of. I'm surprised she hasn't have given me at least a yes or no by now.

Is she worth following up on if she doesn't give me a response at all or should I take this as a sign to get lost?

if a woman flakes means she doesn't have enough repur and creates excuses. but in this case you put her conversation in text that allows you to play check up.

like ex: im washing clothes cant go to the club smelling like a trash can lol

conversation like this reminds her off the date with out sounding needy, also dont apply her name to the conversation at less she put her self with you in the conversation.

like ex(the girl): yea i would wanna dance with a smelly guy

this is ft(for-sure thing) responds like this means in her mind shes aware of your date,

now also tend to keep away from how many friends you'll be bringing it can fuck you up for a ffc(future fuck close) lmr sucks if she thinks you have 15 guys ready to gang rape.

trust me woman think the worst case situation, if she ask you how many in your party you always reply idk maybe a few friends one of my guys might bring his girlfriend

this makes it a for-sure thing if she deepening on her friends to come.

(if you need more detail help you can private message and ill analyze the conversation)

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So I never got back to her and just chalked it up as her blowing me off. 10 minutes from when I initially suggested she meet she says hey want to go to the bar?

I told her I didn't hear from her so I made new plans. Her repsonse was oh I dist know you were waiting for me. I said no wrries. I just need to make plans in advance



I think I displayed dhv but I don't want to look like a dick

actually its not always a good idea to blow a female off if you don't have great repur or fuck close first. or the exception when you need to blow her off when you feel she made flake on you.

curious to how this went after wards were any dates plan yet, if not make sure shes the one that ask.

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