well, there is a guy who is bothering my girlfriend, and I remember a phrase like "if you can't protect your girl, you don't deserve it"..

This is a hb9 girl and she gets a lot of jerks bothering her, but specially one of them is very annoying, and disrespectful, he calls her and say things like "you are a wore" and things like that... So i want to kick his ass...

what's the best way to handle this? what's the best way to handle a fight?

I remember from the book "The Game" Neil said something like, you must show that you are more crazy than he and he will fear you, is this right?

how can I protect my girl? I've never been in a fight before, and I dont have time to learn a Marcial Art right now...

thanks!

You don't have to fight just because some guy calls your girlfriend a name. You should be willing to "stand up" for her, but that doesn't always mean a "fight".

Why does this guy who calls your girlfriend "a whore" even have her phone number? and better yet, why is she even taking his calls and answering the phone? Something doesn't add up...

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Yeah as the above poster mentioned - how does this guy have her number? Is he aware that your girl is "taken"? Or has she "forgot" to mention it? Why is she answering his calls?

This is really weird. Instead of having violence as your #1 way of solving this - try talking to the guy first. Call him up and ask him what the deal is. Tell him to stay away and leave you guys alone.

Talk to him before making any other decisions for now . . .

he is his ex boyfriend.

^Ex or no ex - talking to him and making it clear that he should stay away is the first thing you would wanna go for, rather than wanting to fight him as your first choice. Telling your girlfriend to tell her ex to stay away is also something I would advise you to do.

Communicate with him before doing something stupid as looking to pick a fight with the guy.