My closest friend, whom i'v talked to just about every day for the past 10 years, has a hard time thinking PUA will work for him..

Let me explain..

I live in a very mixed community. We both work lower end jobs for now but Pua material has been a huge interest for the past few years.. Since it's relatively a secret hobby, I never really let anyone know of my interest, but of course, my closest friend..

He has never been a bar goer. I go on on occasion as I work the night shift, but I try whenever I can with 1 other friend that's on the hunt for female attention as well.

Well, after letting my close friend in on things i'v read and learned over the past few months, he just told me the other day he feels this stuff won't work for him.. that because of his color, the girls we see in bar's won't like him.. This hurts me bad. It sucks because the bars I go to primarily have white people in them, as apposed to the normal city life we see day to day. It sucks because I don't really see much material when it comes to black Pua's in general online or anything(Not saying there's not in life, most of the swag and alpha i'v seen were from black guys growing up).

He just has low confidence when it comes to this.. He is a good looking guy. He actually has a couple f-buddies, but it's slim pickings.. I just want him to WANT MORE. He is content and I told him that these slim pickings aren't going to magically run into him at his job forever... But he feel's the bar scene isen't for him, specifically becuase of the color of his skin..

So I ask, he has just as much of a chance as any guy right? I'm trying to get his confidence up in the idea of going out regularly! It's rough that he had to tell me something like that when he has so much going on for himself..

Well he does have a chance, just not in the all white bars you go to. Think about it, if a white woman is frequenting an all white bar expecting to meet a man.what type of guy is she most likely be looking for/interested in/attracted to?...exactly. So for your black friend, location is going to be a bigger issue than the material. I think most of the material is pretty universal, except for the esp stuff...you can use it, but your friend shouldnt..

Well he does have a chance, just not in the all white bars you go to. Think about it, if a white woman is frequenting an all white bar expecting to meet a man.what type of guy is she most likely be looking for/interested in/attracted to?...exactly. So for your black friend, location is going to be a bigger issue than the material. I think most of the material is pretty universal, except for the esp stuff...you can use it, but your friend shouldnt..