Hi

First post, but I've been lurking for a month.

I need some solid inputs in this strange phenomenon I've experienced yesterday.

So - we go out to this "meat market" club, where apparently everybody get slaid.

Unfortunately my wing is not in tune (yeah alejandro, this stuff can be useful,b ut at the end of the day, "you have to be yourself" etc - yeah right). Not a great night, he gets AA and transmits it to me. although I do try to open, learn - particularly body language.

So we are 7 minutes from the closure of the club, he's tired and pulls me to go, and I go "no fuck it, there are still 7 minutes, and loads of girls, I'll do more approaches and learn something".

A HB8 is sitting on her own on a sofa. I go straight to her looking at her in a relaxed, playful way, keeping eye contact. I sit next to her and I say nothing, I'mjust very comfortable and in peace with myself (I say nothing because it is VERY obvious I'm there for her).

After a short pause I look at her and i go "I like salad". She's amused and intrigues, and we start chatting. I start telling her a lot of nonsensical stuff, like I'm a gipsy etc "so you have 2 SPAM", "no I have 3, but you don't work for the home office, because they ar fake etc." so humor is GOOD

She gives me plenty of IOI, touches me. Then a shit test:
HB8: "so what are you doing here all your own, where are your firends"
ME: "I saw my mate disappearing an hour ago with a brunette, he's probably in a hotel ... God know what they are doing now!" (sexual accelerator)

MORE STUFF - not too much

ME: "Do you smell good? - she loves it because I'm direct and unpredictable, and I'm enjoying it!
HB8: "Check for yourself"
[me getting close and smelling her stroking her cheeks with mine 3-4 times]
ME: "Guess what I'm wearing"
[she smells me and kino]

ME: So what's you ideal boyfriend like?
HB8: Makes me laugh
ME: Is that all your happy with? What about clever, good looking [setting the standard]
HB8: Well I don't know... I guess my ideal boyfriend looks exactly like YOU
ME: Me? Nah, it can't work between us, we are going to be just friends, and everything else is TABOO, no matter what happens.
ME: But, are you a good kisser?
HB8: Well, I don't know... I think you'll have to teach me (moer IOI kino etc.)

OK At this point I totally fck up. I can't find an occasion, an excuse a sentence ANYTHING to kiss here. I've accelerated well, I was concentrating on the interaction, the attraction, body language etc

BUT I WAS NOT READY FOR THE KISS. My mind was BLANK and I could not think of anything to just push my lips on hers. What scares me now, is that in my AFC days I would have CERTAINLY kissed her, without thining too much. I would have said just anything.

But given all the theory I've been reading lately, I was overanalysing, and didn't do the right thing.

Needless to say, I lost pace and momentum. She got bored with me not taking her, and after 5 minutes stood up and left.

Any inputs appreciated. I'm slightly pissed off.

alejandro








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