Hey guys really need your advice on here. Been taking salsa lessons and not suprisingly there's a girl who I fancy, when we first started talking we had a good laugh together. When we met the following week within 2 mins she asked if I had Facebook. She then told me she would love to go to a dance gig, I then found a dance show that's happening this month and going to get 2 to tickets for us both. When we do talk about anything we always have a good laugh and she told me her ex was an Asian (just like me), I have teased her lately saying that u kept stepping on my shoes every 10 secs that if you do that again am going to call my lawyer and send you the divorce papers because your taking advantage of me here. She laughed and went with it and when I couldn't make it to class one time she wrote to me on Facebook saying it's a good thing am not doing the class tonight because I won't be stepping on your toes lol. However recently on her Facebook she now has declared she's in a relationship and she hasn't said with whom. So am I fighting a lost cause here? Should i still tease her, take her to the dance gig?, or should I leave it because she's the first girl who I've had the hots for since I split with my ex 8 months ago. I was even thinking of asking her to come to do clothes shopping with me and tease her by saying something like your going to be my fashion guru for the weekend and if you get me anything pink then your fired on the spot that includes getting me anything that looks gay including a mankini. Any advice guys?

She could be doing the whole "relationship status" thing just to mess with you. If she didn't list anyone specifically, then this could very well be the case.

I'd continue doing what you're doing, and play it by ear.

I think the important thing is that not to show any neediness and act as if you don't give a fuck if she is single or not and also if she does say something that she's got a bf or she aint looking right now how about the reply to that would be "you don't have to give me the friends zone speech. I enjoy my time with you and that's what is really important" what you guys think?

Actually I just found out from her friend that she is single at the moment and the only reason she put her status to relationship she was getting teased by her friends that she doesn't have a man in her life