Whenever I have seen my natural friends and how females deal with them, its very impressive and different. When any girl likes my natural friend, they explicitly express it. they actively hang out with them, cling onto them, reply to calls, etc. they might even downright tell that they r interested..he has to do no brain work to figure out that she is interested..

but in my case, even if a girl likes me, they rarely show it. i have to use eye contact, body language etc to figure out that she likes me..and they play hard to get on phone or dates..to sum up, i must constantly chase them and figure shit out..whereas girls chase my natural friend..

is it like this for everyone or just me?..its frustrating to me..why cant they just be more open about their interest? I am not gonna kill them if they express interest for gods sakes..

_________________
One Smile, One joke, One tease, One touch & She's Mine..

hey dude,

You have to give the girl a chance to chase you. be ready to loose her always. Don't give a fuck. I know what you mean when your in that zone about finding out if she likes you or not because you like HER. Sometimes the need to know takes over and you end up coming off as needy. Mainly it could be that your not learning to push and pull enough or calibration. ALWAYS JUST KNOW she already likes you. have that mentality. plus you dont want a girl obsessing over you, trust me it gets old and annoying really quick.

Just like the girls give you shit tests you have to give some of your own. Dont answer a few phone calls or texts of hers, build up a nice connection then dont talk to her for a long while, show her your interested and then avoid her. PLAY WITH HER MIND. they hate that because it makes them want to chase YOU. this is considered less work. I mean think about it, you dont have to keep showing how interesting you are or what not. Im guessing What your friend does is give one great connection with the girl and then doesnt pay her much attention because he gave her a taste of how great he is and now simply walks away effortless and she follows wanting more, or calls, or hangs out alot, etc.

Another thing, My guess is that your friend has more then one girl keeping his mind busy and the whole "i dont really care" attitude settles in when your keeping busy with different girls at a time.(try this) you really just end up caring less and less because you have so many options. and the girls end up seeing and feeling that, so they try to get him back so they could swap it all around on him and then leave HIM. THEY WANT POWER! but the one who cares less always has the power.

one more thing, I have to say in the majority of my time i have been gaming the one night stands really never straight up tell me they like me. they imply it in their clever ways, but almost never flat out say "i like you". The times they did it meant they wanted something more serious and thats a red flag if you were just looking for sex

anyways bro hope i helped somehow