I have a niche sexual paraphilia that I love, but it's so aberrant I don't even want to share it with the forum.

Does anybody know if there are any routines or if there's anywhere that any of the gurus address the subject of convincing women to do kinky shit that they likely wouldn't ordinarily do for a guy?

i hope it doesn't involve poop, lol

nope. not into scat.

If you creep her out with your fetish, you won't get any normal booty, let alone niche.
Keep it hidden until (if ever) it's time. If it really is as aberrant as you make it sound you don't wanna risk it, especially not early on.

And if you feel like this fetish holds back your normal life, get help.

Best you go to a fetish/kinky if you want to find other girls that are into what ever you are into.

Go to one of them clubs specialized in fetishes only

I have found that there are two methods to doing this

1) build comfort with a girl and slowly start edging towards your ultimate goal

2) find someone disposable and just spring it on them, you would be surprised how far this can get you. Like when you first wanted to have anal sex, you horn up the girl doggy or what have you then just stick your finger in there. Don't ask just do it the girl will be lost and stimulated at the same time. ::shrugs::.

People tend to be against certain things before they actually experience it. One time I wanted to um i guess strangle? a girl by putting my hands around her neck and roughing her up a bit. I would talk about doing it some girls would say "thats wrong" or whatever. But once i actually did it to a girl she enjoyed it IMMENSELY, even though we no longer hook up she tells me that she likes when guys do it to her.

If you decide to try and get women who are into your fetish, a good place for online sarging for kinky women is fetlife.com.

Cool thanks for the input guys.

Definitely something to be tiptoed around.