Ok so my girlfriend and I have decided to have sex, and that I'm going to be the one to take her virginity. (Yes, I know it's a shocker that she's still a virgin, and no she's not lying about being a virgin) But I've got a premonition that some LMR is gonna show up. We're actually planning on doing it Friday, so she's already nervous and scared about it. I can already hear an "I'm not ready" or "I decided to wait" coming out of her mouth when Friday comes around. I need some advice about how to deal with last minute resistance, because I've never dealt with taking a girl's virginity before. Like I said, she REALLY wants to do it, but she's scared to death (she wants it to be "perfect," she's scared it'll hurt, etc. the usual stuff). So help me out with this guys

excuse me but whats lmr?

Last minute resistance. Like an excuse she might put up to be able to say "no."

@movieslover are you seriously on these forums??

anyway to the OP if you read the dicarlo escalation ladder you'll have a 75% chance of no LMR. it's a straight forward somewhat lengthy approach. it basically builds upon sexual tension and anticipation so by the time you're ready to fuck she's exploding with desire. and yes the does want to fuck badly even if she's a virgin.

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make sure you just start kissing her getting her really wet, get her really really going dont just "fuck her"

Just read it. Seems like the typical stuff I would do, except the fingering from behind was an interesting idea lol. But also want some good verbal material too. Like if LMR does show up, how can I effectively make her want it again?

Yeah I always make sure to get her really horny when I do sexual stuff to her like fingering and eating her out. But sometimes, she just thinks too much

Yep I predicted it! Check out what she wrote me:

Her:
I don't think I can do it
You know. . .Friday

Me:
Oh it's ok. I won't make you fight how you feel.

Her:
Are you sure?
I mean, I know you really want to

Me:
I want it the same as you babe.

Her:
Nevermind


So NOW what do I do?! Did I make a good choice playing it off? I need some serious help now guys. She's already scaring herself out of doing it!

Just a lot of foreplay to build comfort. Take it slowly and turn her on until she is the one saying "fuck my brains out". You just need to give her a reason like "it just happened", or "I lost my senses".

Just meet up with her and see where this goes.

here's my take. i see this as you putting to much pressure on her. she has to be in the moment. it's like you go to take a blood test and you're anticipating the pain, it's difficult to take the pain willingly. sometimes you get cut and you didn't even realize it happened.

the sex must be in the moment for her to feel that she is free from responsibility. too much pressure is on her right now. so get together with her saturday(alone) and chill out with her. do the dicarlo escalation ladder and fuck her brains out

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Woah now by some fluke, after a long day of fighting, she wants to fuck again. Lol but it's legit this time. There doesn't seem to be any grey area. She flat out said "I want to have sex with you on Friday." But I'm still not gonna completely rule out the possibility of LMR when it actually happens. Thanks for your tips guys!

freeze outs are okay. just stop.

start the momentum again later.