So my prom is coming up and I still don't have a date. There's this girl I'm thinking of asking but I'm not attracted to her at all. I'm just kinda running out of options.

First of all, whats a good way to ask her? Text, facebook chat, in person? During class, outside of class?

She is really good friends with my buddy so she might go with him and it's possible she might say no. The thing is she is in my class (sits close to me) so it would be awkward for the rest of they year if she says no lol. Is there any way I can take the rejection in a funny way or something like that to avoid the awkwardness?

anyone?

Firstly prom dates aren't always because you like each other as 'more than friends', therefore so what is she says no, you can say you just wanted someone to go with! Doesn't mean you're pouring your heart out to her does it, because like you say you aren't that fussed about her! (or are you secretly?)

I'd just do whatever feels natural, personally face to face may seem the most awkward, but I think it'd work out easier if you did it that way, just drop the prom into conversation and mention you don't have a date, if she says 'no, nor do i yet actually' or something similar then drop the question in.. only if she changes subject would i even hesitate to ask.

Although seriously, "if you don't ask - you don't get."

You only live twice mate

Thanks a lot man.

1. Your not attracted to her dont ask her.
2. She hasnt said yes or no yet but in your mind your already preparing for rejection?

ITS YOUR ATTITUDE THATS THE PROBLEM HERE NOT YOUR LACK OF A DATE. YOUR OVERTHINKING IT. Why decide and get stuck on this one girl? Who you dont even like? You should approach it like your curious (about a girl who you actually like there ARE more options) but you could go with anyone. The guys who get the best prom dates think in ABUNDANCE. Me my date asked me out and we were just friends which made it perfect for me to grind on almost every girl that night. So there it doesnt matter who you go with. When you think about I went single. I was there for ME! I actually took pictures with multiple girls too most proms allow you to do that. Tell yourself it doesnt matter! Confidence isnt even the issue here although you do need to be more confident. The issue is your stuck on this one girl. So what if you dont go with her? Still make your prom an awesome night. Have a positive attitude. Dance around right now and sing your favorite song loud as hell and PROMISE yourself that you will have a good night. Dont let bullshit bring you down!!!

-Aiden

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aiden k. baker