So here first a little description of me.
First of all I'm a french canadian so really, dont expect perfect sentence here, because my english is far from be in any way good. So I'm 26 and I just got out of a 5 year relation where I was not really happy anymore and I didnt receive what I wanted in a relation but in the same time I was not giving what she deserve. So we basicly broke up in a commun agreement.
So, how I ended on the PUA community I can't really remember, I think I saw a add about pandora box, but I was like another bullshit adds to get money from poor guys.
But it ended that I did my research and I then ended watching all The pick up artist Season. I also got the basic of how to identified women with the pandora box but nothing more.
So now after like maybe a month of learning process on the "game" and everything and went to a club for the birthday of a cute girl that I know for several year.
Fields process:
So basicly my friend were suppose to get to the bar earlier, I also have a friend in the area that didnt want to came back home so everyone should be there around 10h15 which is kind of early for bar in my area. Most of the time I get there at 11hpm. Anyway so I took the bus so I could drink like I wanted so I got there at 10h30.
The bar was like empty there was like 10 peoples in there and none of my friend. So, I didnt want to look awkward, alone, or wandering around like a fool. So I went to talk to the barmaid so I dont get see alone and loose DHV. But at some point she had to go to set up her "night". So I was back alone, so like a fool I was playing with my smarthphone...
My friend then texted me they were in the lines up, so I then decided to get a table for everyone. So again like a fool I was alone at my table with my 3 beer (yeah 3 beer for 3$ could not resist that deal!). But I told my selft come on keep on smiling keep your head up and try not to loose to much value, anyway the night was still young.
When my friend finaly came in it was like almost 11hpm. 30 min is not long but it was some long minutes. I could had open a set but it was so empty and I was feeling so alone that I didnt have the bravery for that... I know but Im starting with the game give me a break.
So when my friends came in, I got up and went to all kino, kiss all the girl I knew and shake all with all my buddy to show some social value. The ebst part of this is I got like 2-3 friends who are some great HB8.5-HB9 so it was perfect. (why dont hit on them, they are really just friend for me and I like it that way)
So I get my self introduce to all of their friend also, but at some point I lost the name of my target which is kinda of bad, and she also reproched it to me. Has I asked if she remember mine and she did.
So basicly a big part of the night was talking/kino/dancing with all the girl of the group + also get introduce to all the new members of the group just when they come in.
I saw my target with her best friend at the bar so I went to talk to them and kino. and then I got my first drink payed! It was those cheap juicy shot for girls but still it was cool. So at that point my target was in the attitude I needed to repay one for her and I say I would later on tonigth and why not do so anyway.
So on my way back to my groups, I opened a set of 2 girls walking together with hand to hand, so I asked where they were going and if I could follow them and grab their hands. We cheap talk a bit but then again I couldnt remember the name of one of the girls and the music was so loud I could heard it when she told me again. Anyway, when I saw that the set was going out, I kino left then with have fun tonight or something.
So again more Dancing/kino/talking with all the girls in my groups and also my target of course.
Then at some point I wanted to get my target in a close spot to get alone with her. So I asked her back if she wanted her shot back. So I went with my target and her best friend to the bar in the far corner. On my way to the bar I was talking to everyone. At the bar I was cleary in control.
I was literaly ignoring my target and his best friend, and I was talking and having quite fun with few 2 girls that was at the bar when I came. I was also working on the barmaid (it was not the same from the start). It was the first time in my life I could kino a barmaid that's behind a bar, and she was really into me and she was thinking that I was funny.
That being said, I was like at the bar having fun with 2 random girls and the barmaid, and then my target came to me, doing some kino on me and told me that I was hiting on all the girl around me, and that it was clear.
So I told her, what are you talking about, Im a social guy, and I like having fun and chat. Whyle doing some kino on her.
Then I got the attention of the barmaid and asked for 3 shot (me, target n best friend) and I manage to get the 3 shots for free, giving some smile, kino and funny comments/jokes. Seriously, I think of that again, and man Im proud 3 free drink... anyway.
The target and her best then start to lesbo/dance and I join them it was kinda hot, then my back to the bar I quietly drink whyle watching them.
Thats when my old set of the two girls came back (the one I didnt remember the name) and went straight at me asking for hugs. So I hug both of them, and chat and kino.
Then my target came back to me in the like 5 minutes I was talking to my old set, it was nice, she was asking for some attention same with her best friend that were you know dancing like horny girl.
So, i got back on my target kino escaladed, and got 3-4 long kiss close. I bite her like 2 times and man she was asking for more.
But then her best friend grab her by the hand and say they had to leave, it was true because it was like 2h30am and all my friend were leaving also. I didnt get a number but I got her best friend on facebook so I asked for her contact today since I didnt find her contact.
You know I was feeling like I at an total control on everyone at the bar and it was an great feeling. But maybe I opened to many set like my target saw it at some point, like I add the random girl at the bar, the barmaid, and then my old set + my target 2 set.
Im waiting on a msg on facebook SPAM. lol I dont know where that will lead I just want to have fun anyway.
Just wana say it was a great first experience. Im not really in the daygame yet, and this one really a first experience for me. I add some easy value from my girls friends, even if at start I was alone and getting some DHV. And my target was presented to me by our best friend that I know from work so it was not really a real pick up and I didnt number close but Im happy. I add to constantly kino and neg my target to keep her coming, If you know pandora box I think she's a tester justifyer. Man the feeling at the bar, relax, my back on the bar, and soo many girls on me it was some great feeling can't wait to improve.
Sorry for the long post, I hope it was entertaining and someone would enjoy it. Thanks to the community, I just registered but it being like 1 month Im reading this forum and I like it. thanks again!
-Ancton PUA apprentice
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