Hi guys

Am I the only guy that can't really perform with the condom? As soon as i put it on, my dick can't stay rock-hard.. it's semi hard, or even just soft.

Needless to say, when i fuck, i do it without the condom.

Yet of course i bare the risk of any ST diseases and the girl getting in trouble if she doesn't take the preconception pill. Of course I don't cum inside (if i cum at all - but thats another discussion).

So last time i fucked again without the condom, the girl didn't took the preconception, and didn't allowed me to fuck her without at first. In the morning however we did.

How you deal with the situation?
1/ You fuck without the condom even if she doesn't take the medicament?
2/ If you do it, what are the odds of having trouble, both for STD's and pregnancy?

Feel bit like a bastard everytime it happens. But can't do more then advice her to go get the morning after pill...

Thanks
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I have the same problem. I despise condoms. Luckily for me, most of my sexual career has been spent in long term relationships where I didn't have to wear one and both partners were fairly safe and mostly monogamous, lol.

It's an unfortunate necessity. I do have a hard time keeping it up because you can't even feel the poonani with it on.

That's honestly why the best sex is between two monogamous people who know they are clean, have tested clean, are using bitch control, so you can just go buckwild in the bedroom.

Short of that, I'd say she needs to learn how to vigorously suck and swallow.

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I fucked the last weeks twice without condom.

2 girls which i took home the same night.

I'm really getting afraid of any STD.

Where u do this test? Just go to your doctor? Or u should go to hospital for that stuff?

local gp to get your japs eye abused (have fun)

I hate wearing condoms, I think im biologically programmed to enjoy actually busting my nuts in some bird then into a rubber,I still use them when I dont know the girl im with. One problem I always have which does my nut in and makes me think - whats the fucking point of using them, is how often they break on me, been using the extra thick ones which suck balls because of the reduced sensitivity, using durex blue SPAM and they still break.

Condoms are the bane of my life. Admittedly 8 out of the 9 girls i've slept with have been without a condom.. bad I know! (although most were on the pill) I do really want/need to get checked I think, but yeah!

It just takes away the fun.. it kills the mood, you don't feel the warmth, and its not as pleasurable at all.. everyone should be made to be cleaned up and have their STD's removed so we can enjoy safe sex without a bloody condom!

I also hate condoms, it's so much less enjoyable and makes me last way too long... Seriously, the last time I used one, I got so bored of fucking that I faked the orgasm and just gave up.
That being said, if you're doing the nasty with someone you don't trust, it's not worth the risk of not using a condom!

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have to agree condoms just dont do it for me but they are necessary unless you are in a LTR. Better than pissing daggers if you catch something though...

Very true, but it just kills the moment.. I know you can get her to put it on with her mouth or something like that, but still, it kills the flow of things, no?

Try four seasons "naked"

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didnt you guys know that condoms are back in fashion because of disease, these days you have to boil people before sleeping with them

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anyways use them!! try having her put them on you rather you fumbling around with it, i once knew a girl that used to put condoms on a guy without using her hands

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It amazes me the fear that media can put into people. I am not saying be irresponsible, but this fear of STD's is so over blown. Do your research. THEY ARE NOT THAT PREVALENT. They say, 1 in 4 have an STD...they forget to tell you that MOST of that is HPV which is in 90% + of the population and is basically harmless and is really only somewhat dangerous to women for cervical cancer. It is harder to translate to men too. The rest of the STI's (which they just changed by the way...Sexually Transmitted INFECTION) are easily taken care of with a short prescription and only two of them are non-curable (HIV and GENITAL HERPES) which are mostly non-symptomatic for people...they ar enot as big a deal as the nedia has made people think they are...I am much more nervous about pregnancy than STI...

That said, I wear a condom for fear of getting some crazy bitch I like fucking into a mother I might kill...lol But I don't like them. After four years of Marriage and not wearing one and blowing full but in her, "sucks" doesn't communicate it well enough...

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I'm not sure I would be comfortable describing HIV as "mostly asymptomatic" in most people.

Also, HPV has just been linked to deadly forms of oral cancer of the mouth, gums, throat, and tongue. Ten times more likely to give you oral cancer than smoking, yep, from eating a girl out.

I don't say this make some point other than the fact that there is no such thing as SAFE SEX. There is only SAFER SEX. And also the SAFEST sex, which is doing it with a monogamous long time partner.

Condoms don't protect against HPV because it's spread through friction between the skin in the pelvis, not bodily fluids. Some forms of hepatitis are also spread this way if there is a weak area in the skin.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

With medication today that people take for HIV it is relatively non-symptomatic. Without meds, yes, it is crazy. I have three friends who have it and they have been relatively free of any issues that are any different than we all face...look at Magic Johnson...lol Also, check out "House of Numbers." An interesting look at the connection between AIDS and HIV and the MYTH of it all...


My only point was not to say they are not existing, but that the FEAR of them are way over blown! WAY!

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Is there actually any documention on the odds of getting some kind of STD after a ONS with a girl, say aged 20-25 , living a pretty basic life, thus not fucking around all days.

I've found so far that the chance of getting HIV is about 1:2000. Even more, HIV isn't normally transmitted after just one fuck.

The chances for any other kind of desease is what i'm looking for. There are a bunch out of there, but hell, how common are they to go around between young people living a decent healthy (sex) life?
1 out of 4 teenager girls has some kind of STD, i read somewhere. It's hard to believe. It basically says that you have a 25% of being screwed after a ONS without a condom. That scares me.


Concerning pregnancy: if you don't come inside (which isn't that a big deal) and she takes the morning after pill, i guess chances are really really low.