We have been going out for 8 months and we've been living together for 5. We were so in love with each other. She wanted a baby with me and we was planning on having one. I gave her the best sex, made her cum hard so many times and she really loved me. Just lately she's been acting cold with me, her family has been pressuring us and I've been there through it all with her. Now she's just turn around and said to me that she loves me but she has to break it off with me. She says that she needs to find herself. I said so you've cheated on me. And she hasn't because we've hardly ever been apart. She's saying that its a risk she has to take.

I have to go back to living at my dads and I don't know what to do im devastated, she also is pushing our dog to the side that we both loved, because she wants me to take it, she's being extremely cold with this. As I write this im in her house waiting for my dad to pick up the phone to pick me up.

I just don't know what to do, I have no direction. I'm fat. I don't think I'll get another girl. I really just am devastated. She left without even caring. Harshly and cold. I really need a direction, but I don't know what to do.

I know its hard mate but the best thing to do is not to smother her, completely give her space she needs, dont contact her unless she contacts you. Don't waste your time figuring out WHY it happened, it HAS happened, she will probably contact you with a clearer explanation in time.

In the mean time you need to throw yourself back into life, you clearly dont like that you're fat, get a gym membership, start going regularly, pick that up as a regular hobby to improve yourself, I dont think you'll have any problems being motivated or driven to stick to it. Also look to move out if you can afford it, continue to live your life.

Look for new girls, thats the best way to get over heartbreak I find, use things you learn on these forums to help, being fat isnt an issue, if you are motivated enough you will find other girls.

Dont do any of the above in the hope that she will come back to you, do it to better yourself and to make yourself feel better, in time she might come back to you, it may even be likely judging from the abruptness of how she suddenly ended it. In which time you will be a better person, maybe with a better girl, and you might not even want her back.

One quick tip I would give for the future is the bit she said about hardly ever being apart, make sure in future relationships you keep yourself busy with hobbies, as realistically no relationship will work if you spend all your time together.

edit: what was her family pressuring you about? and do you have no better idea as to why she broke up with you?

the harsh reality.

no matter what advice we give, emotions will cause you to fall back on your old ways.

suck it up when no one has your back just move it.

your name is adams... you said you are fat. you need to read the book by adam taste
he is also fat but became a very successful pua. read about his journey in "the charismatic lover"

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