Hi there,
I'm taking my stupidly hot mate out in a couple of weeks to go clubbing, shes coming from about an hour away and i haven't seen her in a long time. I think she's bringing a few of her friends too.

Long story short, I want this girl that night.

Would love some help!


Minutes.

Mate, your going to have to elaborate on how good friends you are. If this is a long term friendship then im not sure if i can help out. This one is never going to be easy, but I'd play it in a fun way. I'd try the angle of ''have you ever thought of'' ''what if'' etc linking them with you. I.e ''What if we hooked up'' but not literally saying that.
I'd bring a few mates with me to keep her friends occupied too.
Another option would be to jump into the situation and just go for it. Grab her onto the DF and dirty dance, lock eyes a couple times, then go for the hook up.
Another option...have a place to go back to afterwards to continue having fun.

hope those help

Thanks,
Just to clarify, we're no where near long term mates, we don't keep in touch that much.
Is it a good idea to see her a couple of times before and drive up to hers?

Peace

not an easy one to sort as I am in a similar situation, won't go into details in here.

all I can say is play it by ear.... cautiously but confidently try... but don't rush in, you'll make yourself look desperate.

who knows she may want you and that is why she agreed to go clubbing with you and the friends are there for moral support for her as she may be frightened of taking it further.

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Always good to hear someone in the same boat.
I think I phrased the initial post wrongly... It's more on the lines of:
She is going clubbing with her mates and invited me out

Does this change anything?

Peace

simply put it shows she has an interest in you, now it all depends on how much... like I said before she could have her friends their for moral support to help her progress further with you.

subsequently she could be testing you to see if you are what she is looking for!

either way remember confidence is paramount and don't rush in. look for IOI's if you get 4 then start opening with an ice breaker, and work from there, don't try negs unless you know how to deliver them... I made that mistake recently - got slapped... and don't be too obvious, girls and women like some mystery in guys it lets their imagination wander and work.

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Mate that's great help thanks.
Will definitely approach it this way

Will fill you in on the results!

Peace

just incase it goes bad I accept no responsibility for what happens.... I may not be the best person but I do analyze things pretty well.

if on the other hand it works out for you, kindly watch my wing if I am in your neck of the woods.

anyway best of luck!

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