I was at a party on the weekend and i saw a HB8 and a 5 together talking. i wanted the 8 and went over and joined them, i had met them a few times before and they already knew i was funny and friendly.

This made it easy to join the group and chat. but then some of my mates joined the conversation which is fine but then some guys that i only met once or twice come in too. and they try and be my wingman by saying stuff like
"oh he is a good guy, u should hook up" OR "do you want the spare room so you two can root"

which makes the girl panic and embarassed. i can only respond with "dude i know im a good guy. i cant just whore myself around the party."

i feel that if i make it funny then there is no damage done.

does this happen to you guys?

how do you handle it?

sometimes i think its my own fault. because i go out and i chat up EVERYONE. i sweet talk everyone into liking me which makes me pretty much king of most parties but also makes them do stuff to embarass me like this.

any new ideas what be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance

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don't mind them.... being non reactive

you could also whisper this to the girl "sorry about them, just don't mind them" and act like you're protecting her and they are creping you guys out...

thanks man.

i might try that. it may even help to isolate?

cheers.


Ben

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haha mate! i get this alot, well i did before i had a gf, but im single now so its all good. personally, i do exactly what you do. your mates come in and fuck shit up for ya by saying "you guys should hook up" blah blah fuck that. if you add a bit of humour like you said you did. its all good. youve kept the idea in her head that your funny, which girls love. and now hooking up, or even rooting her is now on the agenda. sometimes your mates doing that can actually help out

I know that problem, somehow some AFCs tend to overcompensate their shyness by being rude to a HB when she's clearly out of their reach....

thanks for the input guys. i see how putting sexual activity on their mind can help. but i was just sure that how i handled it wasnt right. i might try to isolate mroe after this. because its probably not going to stop. but i do agree that sometimes it helps, but more often than not it doesnt.

glad to see im not the only one.

thanks again for the advice guys.


Ben

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