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PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2011 10:27 pm 
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Hi,

So one of my best friends (a girl) said she wanted me to introduce to some of her friends on saturday, saying that they are possible targets for me.

I'm fairly new to the game, so I wanted to ask, how should I react when I'm introduced to them. Just as if it was a normal set (with opener, time constraint, negs etc.) or what things are to be observed? I mean after all just being myself didn't work in the past, so something would have to change…

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2011 10:29 pm 
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yeah no sure, having fun is the main goal. nevertheless some avdise would be appreciated. it's not as if i want a magic formula, just wanted to ask other people who had been in the same situation, how they reacted.


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 2:33 pm 
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My reaction would be Winning! :)

If your friend is going to be your wing girl make sure she she introduces you to her friends in a very High Value manner. Massive social proof if these girls can see that your friend has genuine respect for your and enthusiasm about letting the girls know what a High Value guy your are (don't take it to extremes unless it is pretty much all true).

As the night progresses you should get some feedback from your wing about which of her friends are vibing on you and maybe even help you isolate your target to give you some space to get more personal and escalate.


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Tiger is right.

She should introduce you in a high value position.

BUT.

Don't make it TOO obvious.

"Hey guys, this is Matt and he is nice, fun, awesome in bed, and he is very cool"

That's exageretaed of course but u get the idea.

In addition to that, forget FTC.
The girl is inviting you the their world.

You have a bit of pre selection.

Join the group naturally like you OWN the table.

Negs and cocky comedy will work good here.

Think of a cool game you guys can play. The loser
orders a round of drinks to the table.

Whatever keeps the "good time" rolling.

You can also bounce back and forth from your friends
to HER friends.

Everything that you do with a natural, confident manner (tone),
will be ok.

Is this helpful?

any more specific stuff you need?

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2011 9:54 pm 
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Thanks Adam Jovani & Tiger...

Unfortunately I think I kinda blew it… They were all having fun and laughing, but I think I slipped way too fast into the friend-zone. So afterwards I started to think what i didn't do, because i didn't have the "courage" to do:

I did not neg anyone. i just couldn't do it, they were all so nice and loveable and, for someone who's actually used to being a nice guy, i could not make a negative compliment.

another issue, was, that i didn't know how to introduce any of the ESP-routines, the cube, or c vs. u smiles etc. what do you say when you want to do them? "let's play a game"? it sounds kinda silly (especially when translated in another language)...

well if anyone of you has any advice to the mentioned problems, i'd be glad :)


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I recently had the same experience happen to me: fairly recently my friend introduced my to some classmates from her cosmetology school.

The best approach here is to be yourself and act naturally, forget about gaming them or if you're going to game keep it light and simple. I feel that once your friend introduces you to her group of friends there's no need for openers/approaches/etc, there's already a rapport built up and all that needs to be done is be yourself, accost the target, and close it.

In my experience I was already buzzed by the time I met some of her friends and I managed it very well. By the end of the night the target and I had a great vibe going, but I didn't number close since the group got separated once we left the club.

I didn't fret. This past weekend our group met up with the target for drinks and I number closed.

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Dude,

neg is not a negative thing per se.

"your cute your nose wiggles when you talk"

The famous neg from "The Game"

It's not about being negative towards her.

It's putting HER in the CUTE zone.

le'me clarify.

You know how when a hot girl says to you
"ohh you're so cute" Like in a "what a great FRIEND you will be" ?

You hate that right?

Is that negative? Not at all!

What she's really saying is you're NICE, but she
is not attracted to you.

That's EXACTLY what you want a girl to feel.

"You're so cute! remind me of my baby sister. She's adorable"

Cute + adorable + like your sister --> compliments that convey
you don't want her SEXUALLY. She's "nice."

Think about what this do to a hot girl who is used to get hit on
non stop by guys.


Hope You understand me here bro.


btw,
as you can see, negs like these can be done anywhere,
anytime of the conversation.

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thanks for the answer. you're totally right if you think about it, they are not negative things...

i'll try some today just for the sake getting accustomed to saying them.


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Sure man.

Keep us posted!

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