I agree with this.

I'm generally a major a-hole in living my life, not because I'm overcompensating but because it has been the most effective approach I have found for getting ahead and staying ahead.

Except, I'm not an a-hole when it comes to people with conditions making a difficult life even more difficult.

When I was in first grade, my teacher read us the story of Jack and the Beanstalk. After the story a girl raised her hand and said her uncle told her that if you plant a penny a tree full of money will grow. I was a total prick at the time and shouted out something to the extent of, "come on, if that were true everyone would be rich." My teacher gave me the dirties look I can ever remember and said I was being rude and apologize.

I learned a lot from that experience. One, some people are not as gifted as I am when it comes to thinking. Two, even if what I was saying was correct that still did not change the fact I embarrassed this girl and her pride in her uncle.

It may be paradoxical but in my world a person's feelings and self-worth matter more than whatever truth there exists out there.

Personally, I would lock this thread were I a moderator.

I don't get how you can be an a-hole and yet in your world a person's feelings and self-worth matter more than whatever truth there exists out there.

These are like exact opposites.

Also approaching girls and escalating has nothing to do with THEIR self worth taking a blow, but it has all to do with yours. I was referring to people being scared of not fitting in, hence wanting approval. Trying to get acceptance has nothing to do with offending people.

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You misinterpreted what I wrote, I was indicating I agree with you. I'm referring to the OP in regards to locking this thread.

And in regards to how I can be an a-hole but still feel the way I do. I indicated it was paradoxical. Allegorically, when one warrior meets another warrior the only appropriate response is battle anything less is insult. When a warrior meets someone who is disabled, the only appropriate response is to lift to him and carry him or her where they need to go.

QFT

I doubt the authenticity of this man's statement and his actual exploits. Furthermore, what if the boys a savant and getting girls is his god-given ability? Their are too many holes left in this generic argument to be of any use.

For some reason I cant absorb any of the comments that Ive read in this thread, I keep picturing the kid from sixth sense walking around a night club saying "I see vagina's".

Are you trolling?

He could be but he could just as eaisly not be. Getting women is easy, if you put some effort into it and yourself. The seduction community makes it sound hard in order to sell products.

Random New Guy: "Oh wow, I have to do all these steps to get a girl attracted? It sounds so complicated and im going to need guidance. Better buy their product"

Not saying there are no good products, there is but i'm sure you get my point.

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Chief asked people their thoughts on this small piece of text which was given no context.

It is a basic assumption for most people in this forum that if an autistic person can get girls then so can you - not exactly a limiting belief.

We've all heard the story of how the high school drop out managed to turn his life around and become a millionaire. I can just as easily say "well if this guy could do it - so can you!" And yes, you can.

What does this achieve? It doesn't tell you how to do it. It just says you can do it. Which most people (unless they're brain dead) are well aware of what is possible and what is not.

You would be surprised at how many guys actually don't know its possible for them to get good at game. They have a ton of excuses as to why they will never be able to do it.

Sometimes it takes something that smashes their reality to make them see they can succeed.

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Not to mention all the pitfalls you fall into. For example: getting numbers, but then only getting flakes and then going: "Fuck this, the game is impossible! It's all a lie! Screw this", God knows I've been there.

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This is actually a very observant point.

However in my personal opinion, I would rather date a girl with one eye and a wooden leg then a girl who talks in the library. I'm just sayin'

Someone's gonna' dish it better take it.

I'm writing a self help book and since the Dating area has been done, I'm covering the "how to get good at the business" game. "How to be a Business guru: Anyone can do it! Volume 1"

Thanks for the marketing strategy!

Edit: HA! Did you see the ironic loophole?

I'm writing a self help book and since the Dating area has been done, I'm covering the "how to get good at the business" game. "How to be a Business guru: Anyone can do it! Volume 1"

Thanks for the marketing strategy!

Edit: HA! Did you see the ironic loophole?[/quote]

Fixed - I didn't write that!

Volume 2 can be "You should be able to do it" - as the volumes continue bring them to more realistic titles till eventually you begin to actually help oeople

I'm writing: "The inner-business-game manual", once you do my affirmations everyday, and the meditation exercises, you'll be swimming in gold!

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