Ok ammm, I don't understand how a girl can CONTRADICT her self so big and so quick. Brief summary. I tend to talk to this girl like she's my GF, AND SHE DOESN'T OPPOSE at all. This is just ONE convo I have had with her in a BF GF style of talking.

ME: So would your parents hate me cause I'm black? (She's Asian, and yeah Old school Asians don't like anyone who isn't Asian if you don't already know)

HER: Nooo, they will like you, they just want someone that will spoil me blah blah blah.

ME: Oh ok cool, I like how I talk to you like we're dating......(I think I may have messes up by saying that)

HER: I don't think I ever wanna date ever again ever, or get married.

WAIT WHAT!?!?!?!?! But you just said this and that about how when I meet your parents they will like me and what not, and she even like described the kind of guys she likes to me. (Was clearly hinting at me, cause guess what I fitted all of the qualities.)

So wtf is going on here? I sense some FUCKERY here.

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I'm almost a complete newbie, so take this with a grain of salt but... I think you might be in the friend zone and she perceives you as just a friend. I know that's confusing since you're talking "like you're dating", but I've seen this happen - there are two people, guy and girl of course, in my social circle who talk to each other like "Why'd you say something like that, you're going to make a horrible parent for our kid!" and the the other will say something like "Look who's talking, I'll have to do all the cleaning around the house!". This is all playful, of course, but they're basically just friends and that's how they tease each other. Only in this case, they both realize they're just friends. The guy is dating another person all the while. If the case is similar here, the girl you talked with may think that you're being 100% playful too and not realize that you're trying to "hint" at a relationship between you two.

The 'dating' line might've been a bad call. It's, in general, a bad idea to talk about a relationship of any kind before you're clearly into each other or have made out etc.

Or it could be a shit test or something like that, if 1) you really did fit all the 'qualities' she listed down and 2) you actually did fit them, think she could've meant you and aren't just creating the impression of you fitting them in your head because you're interested in her and want her to want you too (has happened to me all too often). In that case she might've wanted to see if you' were really serious about her and wanted you to tell her that she'll find "someone" etc. More often than not, though, this kind of situation is only a telltale sign of a person being interested in a friend who's not. You may talk to each other like you're dating, but do you touch often? What kind of touching? What kind of body language does she use around you? These might tell more than verbal aspects...

Agree with the response above. I think a lot of girls do the whole "fake relationship" thing with their good friends, mainly since, well, they're fake.

Oh yeah I touch her ALLLL the time. Like we was going up 3 stories of stairs and she was all "my hearts beating so FASSTT, feel" and she had on a DEEP V neck that day, and today even she pulled the "feel my heart beat move" but the other touches are just like arm thy and real timid touches.

But uhmm, idk she drop IOI's ALLLL the damn time. Like every time I see her for the first time in the day she get to GRINNING, like it wasn't like that at first, and she laughs at like every thing I say (when I' m not even trying to be funny) and like she laughs her ass off, but I tend to make ppl do that anyway so IDK......

UPDATE: I talked to her again today, she is a lazy person, and she really feels as if she's not worthy enough to have a significant other. Because she says she is so lazy, that she never wants to go anywhere and that ppl thinks she's stuck up, but she's really not, she is really just that lazy. So what do I do about this one?

PS In class today (we sat next to each other) about 3 times during class, she just turned 2 me and smiled. Which maybe me smile of course......

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bump.

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?