Ok, I know what IOI's are and I've become more aware of what to look out for... but this is a new one on me...

This girl (who's a friend) was with me when we were watching the England game (which we lost) down the pub a few days ago... and she was stood next to me, and even tho she has a BF, she kept on pushing her boobs into my arm. Now I didn't really know what to make of it, as her BF was nearby, so I wasn't in much of a position to do anything... but this has got to be an IOI right? or am I reading to much into it?

Now I'm more than happy to be friends with her, as I know she can be a little crazy now and again, and if I was her BF I dunno if I could put up with that... so perhaps I'm being "hard to get without" even trying... I'd just rather know what she wants! Answers on a postcard please.

Soz for rambling on, I just wanted to get this written down while it's fresh in my head.

Sounds to me like you are unintrested in her because of her boyfriend...she is giving you IOI's that she hopes her b/f will not pickup, unless your like way deep in LJBF zone...

IMO you need to decide if you care enough about the dude shes with (if hes a friend) to go for her, as it will likely make him unfriendly towards you.

If you dont care about him then try and get her out without him, or maybe try and get her to dance or grab some drinks with you. Seperate her from her b/f then run game.

If your good at C & F then Neg her about her boobs touching you.

Well, right now things aren't going well between her and her BF, so I guess she could be "testing the water" with me.

It doesn't help that her BF is a friend of mine, so I think I'd rather not get involved with her right now... If she's gonna leave him, I don't want it to be because of me.

I think it's gonna be a lot less hassle to go for some other girl, even tho I get on with this one well. Still, I like a challenge.