i am an attractive male, i look good, smell good and through lots of travel speak very good english and has a variety of different accents. girls pick up on my attractive lifestyle and they are attracted to me physically as well. i'm 18 years old.

now i have read some david d cocky funny and yeah i do C&F now the girls seem to love it but they sometimes call me out on it and say "you are so full of yourself" or "you are so conceited" etc etc... my ex's did the same thing. but they have never said it in a way that they seem disgusted... they're always laughing or smiling when they say it. girls even tell me they love that i am so confident and so full of myself.

i texted a girl a ping text basically saying i am the sexist man alive. and she replied. "flyhotstuff should not be so conceited with himself"...

now my questions are:

*should i get rid of it
*they seem to like it so should i really stop
*should i just tone it down just a bit

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futility is doing the same thing over again expecting different results... change the way you do things and get different results... experiment

You are reactive. Be otherwise, be proactive.

It might be a shit test, incase if it is turn it up even more. Or really you might be over doing it, in this case you need to turn it down. Either way, is hard to tell, really have to see you interact with girl.

Either way, your doing something wrong so that is why your getting called out. Over doing it is just saying your got personal issue your trying to hide. C&F should not be your whole game. It just needs to be a part of your game and part of who you are. You still need to create comfort with the girls, qualify them, reveal something embarassing about yourself, you know, show them that your human.

I agree with Beyond Pickup.

Be proactive, not reactive. I could not have said it any better or more succinctly.

They like you enough to be attracted to you because you are that way. Why would you want to change it at all? That is a huge shit test. If you change for her, she will be banging the poolboy in no time.

Ok I know exactly what you're talking about. Girls put down guys that are attractive because they feel jealous/inferior to them. I got out of a pool once (and I'm chiseled guy from all the bodybuilding) with my swag-like style without saying a word and a girl just told me I'm a "showoff".

The only thing you need to change is putting yourself up high verbally (UNLESS there is attraction). Saying things like, "I'm the sexiest man.." etc. I said that as a joke too before and the girl took it seriously and ignored me and later found out it was because she thought "You were too much into yourself."

what do you mean exactly? And can you give some examples?

I can't speak for Beyond Pick Up, but I would take it to mean: Lead, don't follow. Be your own man, not try to accommodate her by changing (reacting) to her cues.

mack 2.0 i never intended to change i was simply wondering if any of this as any negative social effects on how i am view by other people. so i am just gonna get on with my life and continue being the person i want to be. my self image

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futility is doing the same thing over again expecting different results... change the way you do things and get different results... experiment

You'll find that, as you get older, high quality girls will react less and less positively to bragging.
Confidence is good, but truly confident people don't feel the need to say things like this.

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- Lux et Veritas -

i don't brag... i just felt i had to point that out so you all can give better judgement and more suited advice

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futility is doing the same thing over again expecting different results... change the way you do things and get different results... experiment

If your sure they are laughing and smiling then that's a great sign. Take advantage of it. They are testing you out to see if your really are sexy. Respond to her by saying:

Yeah and you love it (with a smile and sexy tone)!

or

Girl I am so out of your league!

I get laid saying this all the time. In a women's perspective, shes saying nerve of this guy to say this. He must be good. My point is that saying this shows that you are a man not a momma's boy.