So let me paint a picture for you guys. There is an HB who we will call lezbo for the sake of this post. She's pretty hot, I would say a 9.5. I met her about 6 or 7 years ago through a mutual friend. We hung out every once in a while and got along pretty well. At one point we established a really good brother/sister type of relashionship with each other. I had no intentions of ever sleeping with her because well, she was gay so I kind of programed myself not to think of her in a sexual way.
Anyways, after a while we lose contact with each other and kind of go our seperate ways. It wasnt untill a couple of weeks ago that I saw her somewhere and we chatted for a while to catch up on old times. She was no longer dating the girl that I had met her through and now had another ltr that she was very happy with. I suggest to her that we hang out sometime and maybe try to build our friendship back up to where it was before.
I had no problem with flaking, and actually this is one of the observations I would like to point out to you. If you talk to a lesbian from a friendship only frame and you dont say creepy shit to her like "I could so change you" than she would have no reason to see you as having any interest in her and she will have no reason to flake on you. She is a "friend." We decided to go out for breakfast the next saturday and spent few hours hanging out with each other. Now this whole process had a very interesting dynamic to it because I STARTED with comfort in order to make her invest herself enough for me to build attraction. Im going to write a post in the future discussing the benifits of starting in the C stage and other M3 model adjustments that you can get away with. So me and lezbo spent few days together and REALLY had a fun time, im talking laughter erupting at least once every 10 minutes. Im a really fun guy to be around. Im funny, spontanious, adventurous, cocky, playfull, women and people in general enjoy being around me. I was using a lot of attraction techniques that I had mastered within the comunity on this girl (subconciously) including social proofing myself imensely. I was basicly able to social proof myself so well because she was just my lesbian friend, therefore when I got a call from a women I could say on the phone "yea lets hook up tonight" basicly all my interactions with women where right in front of her face to see. So im kino escalating this girl, im running routines, im acting cocky/funny, and basicly doing everything I can possibly do to create attraction. This brings me to my second observation: Lesbians will rarely give you any ioi's and if they do, they are very subtle ones. The only real ioi I could feel from her was the fact that she was acepting my kino pretty well. It wasnt untill one night that I got a text from her at 3 am saying "I love you, I miss you" that I started thinking I might be able to take this somewhere. The next day we spend the whole day together, than I drop her off at her girlfiends house. Its about midnight and I feel like going for a ride, I hit her up and she's down to roll. I pick her up, we drive around and after a while we park somewhere. Now, to this point our interactions have all been playfull and silly. That night was different, we sat in my car, layed the seats back, opened the sunroof, looked up at the stars and had a REAL conversation for about 2 hours. We really opened up to each other and told each other our fears, dreams, hopes etc. A little subtle hint I picked up on tho is that during the whole conversation, she never once mentioned her girlfriend. See how I altered the m3 model so far? I started with comfort, used that comfort to build attraction without her flaking on me than set up a very intimate isolated conversation and moved forward to comfort again. I suggest she sleep over my house. I use plausible deniablility of course by tellling her that we will watch twilight and afterwards if she's too tired she can crash there. We get to my house and we are laying in my bed cuddling to twilight. How fucking gay does that line sound? lmao. I say to her "I really want to fall asleep, lets shut off this movie and talk for a little while untill we crash." We are laying there in the pitch black, talking to each other and our bodies are really mingled with one another. At that point I feel her lmr kick in. She turns her body away from me to face the wall and says "goodnight" I reply "goodnight" and turn my back (freezeout) 10 minutes later she turns towards me, I wait an aditional 5 to turn towards her. We are in each others arms pretty much breathing on each others face. I make some edward cullen joke and she bites my arm. I bite her neck, she moans. I continue to bite and suck on her neck and she is fucking digging it! We make out...escalate, finger, fuck.
ok great right? no not great. Next morning she has tons of hickies on her neck and is feeling some serious buyers remorse. I give her her space that whole day, I apologize to her for fucking her and tell her how wierd I feel about it too. (I came to the conclusion a long time ago that if a women feels buyers remorse, the best thing you can do is to pretend you have buyers remorse also and say things like "I feel really awkward about what happened between us, I let my emotions get the best of me. I guess we can still hang out if youde like but we should really slow things down, im not comfortable" Ive field tested that few times and it works very well. It kind of plays on thier emotions and makes them less worried that your just going to want to start where things left off last time you two where with each other)
So I really make her feel like it was such a bad mistake of mine and I shouldnt have done it and it will never happen again blah blah blah. We hang out few more times, end up at my place and......we fuck again. Which leads me to my third and final observation: lesbians fucking LOVE cock. They love to finnaly be dominated by a man, to get their hair pulled, necks bitten, strangled. I think its all those years of surpressed sexual tension for men all coming out when they FINNALY realize how much better cock is. So after second time I fucked her I made no apologies at all and treated her like every other slut I fuck. How did that work out? well, she's been writing on my facebook wall all day today
Next time she wants to hang out im going to tell her that I cant see her because I have a date that night. I DO want to create a jelousy plotline and I DONT want her to feel like she can have her cake (be a lesbian) and eat it to (fuck me whenever she feels like it)
Im facinated with gaming lesbians now and I think im going to try to make it my own little thing.
CHAT
