Is it possible for a women to have had enough?

By "having enough" I mean, not wanting more sex.

Let me explain: I always either go down on my girlfriend or pleasure her with my fingers before having sex (she tells me that she has an orgasm every time I do either - most of the work is done around her clitoris, sticking my fingers is just a little "bonus" I add). Its just something i've been used to, for me, you need to boil the water before putting the pasta in it.

However, I usually notice that she has what she call's an orgasm (she isn't much of a screamer, but her body just starts going crazy and shaking everywhere to a point where "she just can't take it anymore", and don't get me wrong, she does make noise, but not porno-esque noise).

After which she often tells me that "she doesn't want to get pleasured right after again" because just like for men after ejaculating, you just don't rub your ding right after. (those are her words). Is this the same for women?

Sometimes during sex she will ask me if i'm about to cum yet because she apparently already has.

Also, we've never had sex more than 3 times in row because she often says that her privates "sting". I, want to have loads of sex for days and days

I've always thought that women rarely have orgasms, and therefore I find it weird that she would almost consistently have one.
Furthermore, when she asks me if i'm about to finish, it kind of makes me feel like she isn't enjoying herself. She looks like she is (facial expressions, noise, etc) but is she really?

Another issue I sometimes have is that I will be hard (take notice that i'm in my early 20's), start penetration, then do a couple of different positions, and sometimes I will pull out to do switch positions and my penis is soft.
She laughs and says that its because he's tired! However, what kind of problem is this?

I have absolutely no issue getting the horse up, but it looks like it could use a bit of Redbull sometimes in the long run...

Every girl's vajayjay is different. You can't generalize. So your girl is probably just telling the truth.
I've been with girls like your girl who don't want me to fuck her right after she has cum, and I've been with girls who are totally cool with me fucking them all I want after they cum. But it doesn't really matter what our experience with other girls is since each girl works so differently down there.

"I will pull out to do switch positions and my penis is soft. She laughs and says that its because he's tired! However, what kind of problem is this?"

That's called Erectile Dysfunction (ED). Get viagra or cialis or whatever it is called.

Yup but isn't viagra for old guys who can't get it up?

Get me right this happen's one time out of 10, at worst.

ED is usually caused by anxiety in younger people. get some anti anxiety pills and pop one before you have sex and you should be good.

You should absolutely not take anti-anxiety pills to cure your random 1 in 10 ED..


Every guy some time or another can't raise the ol' flag, but I wouldn't worry unless it occurs frequently.

If you're annoyed by the 1 in 10 ED (and the problem probably is some kind of anxiety-thing), just try to relax, and don't put pressure on yourself - whatever works to help you feel secure and relaxed, and you will get that thing standing up in no time.


Cheers.