Hey guys, I’m new here, and this is my first post/question, a good one i think, i hope you guys have some good advice for me.

I study in Holland on a high school, i have a small class, but there is one really hot girl. The first day i saw her, i thought: you going to be my girlfriend but that was not that easy.

This girl is really hard to get, so am i. She is a flirty girl and gives me lots of IOI's but she is also flirty with other guy's.

I really liked her so i had to make a good game plan to make her my girlfriend. I started to ignore her and give lots of neg's, but in a playful way. After a couple of weeks there was a school party, she was also there. I was dancing with a lot of girls in front of her, and i ignored her. She was talking with girlfriends about what i was doing. Later that night i was sitting with a girl and she was sitting next to me on my legs, i thought 'this is the moment' and i touched her legs very gentle. She looked at me and said: what are you doing!

So that was not the right moment(lots of girlfriend around her I think). I waited one more week and there was another party. It was the same game. First ignore her, then dancing with other girls, but now i was kissing with a hot girl in front of her eyes. She walked to me and was dancing with her but to my legs to stop me kissing the other girl. I ignored her and walked away with this girl.

The next day on school the girl i was gaming walked to me and looked very pissed off. She was not amused, but there was also a smile on her face. after that moment she get closer and closer to me , we talk about private things, but also about sex, what she likes and what kind of pussy she haves. she calls me her big brother, and i think that is not good, i don't want to be in the friend zone, and when she calls me her brother i neg her. When we text each other she give’s compliments about my body, and on Facebook she looks at pictures of me.

Last week she said she likes another guy, she told me that this guy called her in the night and that she slept with him. But she said this to let me know that there are more guys around her. Now every time I see her she is talking about this guy.
After that moment i ignore her for a week, have sex with other girls and sometimes i neg her. I let her know I loosed my interest in her. ( I’m not of course)

My question is, should i wait till she understand i loosed my interest in her (I’m NOT) or should i stop ignore her and play another game.

Long story, but I hope there is some advice, thnx ! ( sorry for bad English)
Grtsss

Grow up and stop playing games. Shes totally into you (her telling you about the other guy...thats her trying to make you jealous.)

Text her up and invite her out/over and go from there. Have fun.

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Here is a update,

I made a new move, to get this girl. After my last post i send more messages with sexual tension. I also invite her to drink something at my home ( we had a drink, but with a lot of her girlfriends -.-.

There is something weird about this HB ( what else, it's a women )

She is a college student and we work together on a project, so every day we talk together for more than 1 hour, and that's the same for the next three month's ( maybe she fears that if it goes wrong we still have to work together)

When i tease her with sexual text messages she likes it she come to me and said, you like me right? or just smile horney, then i made the next move i text her ' your body is hot, but that doesn't mean i like you, of course it's you're decision that you think i like you. She does not response and ignore me after that. No problem for me, but the next day she comes to me and said 'did you know i have a new boyfriend' and I’m going to him tonight.

Well, the thing is, I’m happy with the girls in my life and have enough sex. but i don't know what she is doing, why she want to make me jealous and if i response with sexual text messages she act’s weird / defense and business attitude ( work together)

The facts:

She like's my body, talks about it a lot
She likes my legs/ass she gives compliments
She gives compliments about my clothes

She knows that i slept a lot with other girls, so she knows I’m not shy or what. Sometimes she told me, this is too much sex talk for me, can't handle it ( with a smile)


My question:

Normally when a girl act's like this, it's ---> next, i don't like this kind of games, but, because i have to work with her she is around me all the time, and that's makes the situation different, i have to deal with her.

Because i have to work with her for three more months, and i want to stop this cat and mouse game, i want to push this to the end. Or an epic blown out or have sex, the question is...

If you were in this situation, how to escalate smart

( of course i let you guys know how this ends, but please give me some smart pua advice)