Hey guys! Long time since i've posted here, but - problems always come I guess.

First of all i'd like to say that i'm not looking for any moralization. I've made my desicion, and there is no way that i am going to tell my girlfriend the truth.

As for the problem:

Half a year ago i cheated on my girlfriend. Me & My bestfriend were on holidays, - and we were drinking and smoking like ever before.. My bestfriend were about to go into a LTR with a girl, so we thought that we would make the most out of his last week as a free man.

One night we had been smoking and drinking heavily, and my friend got the idea that he wanted to fuck my ex-girlfriend, so i called her, and before i knew the best of it she was at my house. After a couple of hours of smoking i was completely destroyed, in fact - we were all destroyed. I passed out, and when i woke up she had her hands on my thighs and made me horny as hell. I cheated on my girlfriend that night.

I understood at once that i was doomed: She would tell my girlfriend. So i told her the story like i told you guys, except for the cheating part. I told her that my ex loves me, but that she is crazy, and therefore is going to tell my girlfriend that i cheated so that my girlfriend would dump me. I told her that most likely my ex would call her up and tell her this, but that it's not true, and that she's simply crazy. I also have my bestfriend to back this up. Of course, my girlfriend belived me as she already knows that my ex is quite crazy.

My ex-girlfriend, being the unstable humanbeing she is, thinks that she loves me, and has become totally obsessed with me. She calls me every night, crying, telling me how she loves me etc..

So.. Last night she contacted my girlfriend, - telling her what happened. My girlfriend still belives my story.

So what i am fearing is that she will become obsessed with destroying my relationship, this girl is crazy. She has been calling me every night for half a year, calling my family, that includes my mother and sister. Calling all of my friends etc. She has even threatened me with sending gangmembers to my house..

How can i solve this? How can i make my ex quit this? How can i reverse the attraction? How can i make her quit obbsessing? As for the act of covering up what i did - Please do tell me if you think that it won't hold up.. But as far as i can see, there is no way it won't. My ex-girlfriend have 0 credibility, nor does she have any proof.

And, yeah.. I know i'll get alot of critique on this one, i am an asshole, and i admit that, but this should stay on me. I do not want to hurt my girlfriend by letting her know, it'll do even more harm.

- Koff out

I think part of the problem is that not caring about her can be perceived as being alpha and stuff. I've had it happen too, the moment you REALLY dont feel anything for a chick anymore they get turned on somehow.
I dont know man, sounds like serious issues. Cant you let her come over and give her the most boring time of her life? (Like wachting a footballgame or something?)

so you decided to cheat on your current girlfriend with your crazy psychotic ex-gf who was actively stalking you and your family at the time?

and now what bothers you about this choice is the fact that you current gf may find out? but not so much your conscience or respect for your current gf?

i am drawing a blank here as for what help i can offer you.

what exact advice are you seeking?

My questions are theese:

"How can i solve this? How can i make my ex quit this? How can i reverse the attraction? How can i make her quit obbsessing? As for the act of covering up what i did - Please do tell me if you think that it won't hold up.. But as far as i can see, there is no way it won't. My ex-girlfriend have 0 credibility, nor does she have any proof."

She was not stalking me, nor harassing me before i fucked her.. It was after that she started obsessing - I'm sorry if i was unclear about that

It boils down to how I can make my ex quit obsessing with me.

Give me your ex's contact info. I'll swoon her and solve your troubles. I'm quite new at irl PUA but online I can make anyone coo.

hahahahha problem solved. Pass it over to me too, ill mind fuck the shit outa her =)

Haha, that'd be great! All of a sudden she's starting to have a bunch of PUAs stalking her, would've been brilliant!

You could shit your pants in front of her. That would definately make you look not so awesome to her.

Seriously though. If you could find a way to downplay your desireable qualities and make her start focusing on your negatives then you might solve a few things. I'm not saying make her hate you though, because you don't want her focusing on you. Repulsive would work though.

Couple that with setting her up with somebody new and I think you're onto something

no worries, you already did that

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

how do you reverse the attraction?, stop being retarded, its very simple, don't ever sleep with her again, don't ever contact her again, remove her from your facebook, and block her phone number from your phone, and avoid her like the plauge and if you see her in real life be colder then ice, problem solved, as for the girl friend, lieing to her is stupid as fuck imo, if you want to get with multiple girls you should be honest about it not some serial monogamist that just lives a lie