hey guys was gaming this new girl.

we were chatting and everything, and tried to get a day 2 with her.

She said, that she loves hanging with me but just needs a little space cause of personal reasons. and then said how she is busy but will try to find time.

Being a PUA in training I reply "haha no problem"

she goes "sorry it makes no sense since we haven't talked that much lately" (like 48 hours)

I reply "no worries. its cool"

Then she talks to me about this guy she is trying to ditch or whatever didn't really care that much...dont think i acted like an AFC

we talk some more...and she asks if i want to get coffee today.

All of this happens in 30 minutes. Trying to be a PUA since i want to make sure she knows i have things to do, i reply i dont drink coffee...ice cream is more my cup of tea. plus i am busy today,

She replies okay, just hit me up later this week then.

Suggestions? should i even hit her up cause of the space thing this week at all?

anything?

She's clearly still interested in you. She wants you to talk her in to leaving that other guy, OR (but there's only a small chance of this) she wants to use you as a way of making the other guy jealous.

When she asked you out for coffee, I would've written something along the lines of: "Look, I don't have time for drama, so until you completely ditch that other guy, I'm afraid we won't be having coffee "


It's a little late now that you rejected her coffee, but I would still have this attitude: You want to have coffee with her, but certainly not if she's still talking to some other guy. You know that you are interesting enough to be the only guy a girl needs to see in a romantic way.

alright thanks. Was studying in the library today and she wanted to chill with some food today so I did...haha. Since its been a week or two since we have been at it...I am having trouble figuring out how to keep the attraction going?

I hitting on this chick, we have a lottt in common and I felt confident when talking to her the first time ever and so on, but today y felt like conversation sucked, that it faded and died out constantly.
She rarely shows initiative but when I talk to her she answers at all times and laughs at all my "funny" comments.
One IOI I noticed is that she constantly smiles when I talk with her, me being subtle. I tease her and she plays along.
I'm scared that she's either boring out or that I may become just a friend.
How can I spice up conversations with her? given that we just kicked off chatting around but not dating.
Help ASAP and thanx in advance,
Recode

Dude, YOU are the man, enough talking. You have a lot in common, man the f.u.c.k up and start keeno before someone else does. 1 session of good conversation is enough. Don't try to have conversation, instead go and do things with her, its very easy to make her feel pressured by talkin too much. IF SHE COMES ON SECOND DATE AND MAKES TIME FOR YOU, SHE WANTS TO BE KISSED. Sex is not a big deal, be easy, relaxed and next time you look at her remember the same way you like her vajin, she loves your cock and had probably thought about suckin it. Man up, she wants you to lead the fuck out of her. Keeno her in 30 min and you get to bang the hell out of her vajin next time you see her.

Imagine you are talking to a dude, it makes it easier.

thanks