I have been going back and forth with a woman on pof for several weeks now. A week went by with nothing. Basically it was headed towards meetup, then suddenly she got real busy. I wrote her off.

A week goes by, she starts messaging me again. I have a pic of a semi nude woman on my profile, she uses that to let me know she is bisexual.

I just want some opinions. Is she a tease, or is she asking for it ?

All of my communications have been either cocky/funny, or sexual innuendo. Asked her out once, that was when she got real busy. But, now she is back on her own, I did not contact her in any way after she said she was busy.

Who knows what her deal is. You could be dealing with a guy posing as a girl for all we know, or...she could be married (or in a relationship), maybe she's under age? Try to verify her identity. Ask her to send you a camera pic or to jump on the webcam.

If she asks why, tell her you want to be sure she is not a middle-aged perverted guy. If she refuses, tell her 'I guess my hunch was right, you are a guy, I knew it'. Bust on her...she will show her true colors.

Keep up with the c&f approach, if she flakes again, cut her ass loose. Tell her you are not interested in online 'chatting', you are ready to meet hot women.

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update:

Sent email accusing her of being a perv man as suggested, worked as designed

she is for real, got real name & number, text & brief talk last night(she started it after we swapped names and numbers). It was late so just saying hello at that time then went to sleep. Will schedule a meet up today, if she balks on that she is playing some game and I'm moving on.

P.S. I don't ever get fixated on just one, especially before I have even met them in person. This one just seemed unusual. She could look nothing like her pics, be married, who knows.

Online dating can be tricky, good luck.

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update: flaked again. she's history.

on to the next one

Before you "next" her you might want to try getting her on the phone first. Online dating can be scary to a lot of women. Ive found that if I talk to a girl for just a couple hours on the phone it REALLY makes her more comfortable in trusting that im not a wierd computer loser/stalker. Honestly I cant remember a time that I went straight from internet/text conversation to a day 2. But alternatively, the rate in which I hook up with girls after talking on the phone for a night or 2 is almost astranomical. Remember, even tho it might not seem like it, women still have a fear of getting kidnapped, rapped, and or killed.

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Yes sir!

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See, thats the problem with all of these "pua's" out there. They are so quick to "next" a chick that they are gaming for no reason. Its egotistical, why are you nexting girls left and right? because you dont see any success in the interaction with that girl and, instead of getting rejected in the long run your going to "next" her so that you can feel like it was your decision. You should only be nexting women if they dont meet your standars in a women. Dont just next a girl because she's being a little flaky. As a pua its YOUR fault if you get flaked on, not the womens. If you get rejected its YOUR fault. Im sick of all these wanna be pick up artist nexting women after women because they hit a brick wall. Like I told him, if he where to get her on the phone, make her feel a little more COMFORTABLE talking to him than maybe she will meet him. She's not going to meet a complete stranger that she's had a few conversations online with unless she's completely desperate. My point is this, "nexting" a girl is basicly you as a pua throwing in the towel. Your basicly saying "well, my game isnt working on her so im going to save face and move on" screw that! theres something to be said for a non needy persistance and it seems like nobody in this comunity has that anymore. Reply, I would love to hear a counter argument.

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There are 3 type of players, those who make it happen, those who watch it happen, and those who wonder what just happend. Which one are you?

Dont just next a girl because she's being a little flaky.

Interesting post. Well, since we don't know what we're doing on this forum, would you care to enlighten us? What do 'you' suggest?

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Hey ecudes,

your statement about flakes always being the fault of the man is not correct. There are time waster women out there. Put it another way....they are just fucking with you for their entertainment.

No. women fuck with tools for "entertainment." They dont fuck with high value men, we dont let them.

and to sinful: In this particular instance ive already mentioned to him 3 times what he could have done alternatively. Maybe you missed that part?

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There are 3 type of players, those who make it happen, those who watch it happen, and those who wonder what just happend. Which one are you?

see, that's the issue translating from real life to the internet. Anybody can be anything on the internet. The only "value" is a picture and some vital statistics, and even that can be bogus. I use real pics, and I don't make things up, very straight forward.

When I started the thread it was about a particular woman, and yes she was fucking with me. I did talk to her on the phone and texted before that. She would play unavailable, but then continue the conversation until I had to cut it off. In real life, it is quite apparent if there is any interest within a few minutes and I do not get tooled on.

I changed things up and got a better response.

I put in my profile that I am only interested in women who want to meet face to face.

Also, I decided to include something about that in my opening email, such as "If you will never meet offline please delete this message".

I tried it out, messaged 10 women, got 4 friendly responses, 1 said "huh ?". and the rest did not respond. That is actually a better response rate.

thats a very good point.

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There are 3 type of players, those who make it happen, those who watch it happen, and those who wonder what just happend. Which one are you?